Help I need some advice now!!!!!?

Question

Ok my friend is being really paranoid about her b/f not callin her. She said he hasn't called in a week and she doesn't know why. She keeps saying that she loves him then hates him. But guys, what is his problem? Why won't he call her? And Girls, what would you do if you were in this situation?

Answer 1

I hate to say it, but men can be pretty cowardly when it comes to breaking up, so often times they simply disappear. I know it hurts now, but it's better for your friend in the long run; she's worth so much more than this pu ssy!

Answer 2

Greetings,

If a person is interested in you, they will call (even to say that they might be away for a few days). If they don't, then that's an obvious signal that they're aren't really interested in you. No point agonizing yourself over it....move on.

I'm wondering why your friend would say that she hates him sometimes.....that's not normal either. And again, the word "love" is a special word.....I'm not sure if it's the kind of word that should be used to describe the amicable parts of her relationship when it seems that things aren't going like they should. Unless of course, the guy fell down in his kitchen and can't get to the phone for a whole week. :)

Perhaps it's time your friend go see her boyfriend just to make sure. : ) Apart from that, there isn't enough information about your friend and her relationship to make a better diagnosis. :)

Good day.

Answer 3

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Answer 4

Erm, if I was dealing with such a gf, I'd be acting the same way.

I mean on the one hand I (might) love her. But on the other hand, the grief she pours on me for not calling more often and such is just oppressive.

You gotta tell your fren to let go. If he comes back, they'll be a happier couple... if he doesn't she won't keep holding on to this grief... makes sense?

Answer 5

He isn't calling because your friend is nuts. She really needs to seek some counsling to get a hold on her emotions. Not calling is a guy's way of saying "I cannot stand being around you, and now that I can control it I will, by not calling" Seriously, she sounds like she is nuts.

Answer 6

Ummm, if he hasn't called her in a week & he lives in the same city or state(in which case, he could still call) sounds like she's getting the brush off. She should take the hint & move on.

Answer 7

Let your friend know, to call her "boyfriend" up and leave a message on him answer machine "Are we together or not?" And see what happen, if he does not return the phone call. then it's over.

Answer 8

time to forget bout him. If he was so interested in her he would call her so my only guess is that he dont want and he is being a
pu$$y about not telling her or he is seeing someonels else

Answer 9

honestly...i'd be suspicious.....she cannot get hold of him in any way...i'd say he's moved on...if this is a long distance relationship...i'd realy think that...she is his long distance gf....but more than likely...needing local engagements to keep his appetite satisfied.

Answer 10

i have the same problem and i do the same thing