ship.. We lived together if that makes adifference. No kids together. Pretty serious.. And what if I meet someone and they ask if I have a boyfriend and I say no we just broke up. and they ask how long ago and I say 4 days ago...what are they going to think or say... What do I do?... just stay in the house till it's time??
2006-10-08 19:34:57 · 17 answers · asked by Sasasa 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, I wouldn't say 4 days ago.. just say pretty recently. Anyway, there is no set limit on time... just when you feel ready. And you don't have to go out "looking" for a boyfriend. Just take some time to get over your ex, focus on you, hang out with friends, and then if you meet someone nice along the way start slow and be honest... You don't have to talk about the fact that you have an ex either... or that you just broke up. If you don't feel ready to date, then wait...
2006-10-08 19:39:41 · answer #1 · answered by spanish kitty 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't understand this....you're worried about what other people would say about you, but you have the nerve to LIVE with someone without even being married to them.
Plain and simple, relationships don't last when they're simply based on crotch activities and paying bills together. This is why there are so many relationship breakdowns, divorces and cheating nowadays. Real and lasting relationships begin with actually respecting each other, honoring each other, being kind, having patience, valuing the things that make them unique and special to each other.
Anyone can make a friend with free sex and bill payments. If you want real love, you have to start by finding someone who puts the relationship AHEAD of their personal selfish and immoral desires. YOU ARE NOT A PIEACE OF MEAT.....NOR IS YOUR PERSON. Real happiness comes from the thought of knowing that you have real honesty and real feelings in your relationship. And you can build upon that with your life and not the way you are progressing now..........it doesn't feel good right now does it??? Here is your chance to make a change for yourself.
Good day.
2006-10-09 03:55:14 · answer #2 · answered by Jesus S 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well if it was a pretty serious relationship, and its only been 4 days..why did u guys split??? If there is no chance of u ever getting back together then, whenever you are ready to date is when u feel comfortable with it..don't worry about what other people think. if your ready then go ahead & date..take care
2006-10-09 02:39:43 · answer #3 · answered by lori 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's 'time' when YOU feel like it's time. What will someone think or say when you tell them the truth about how long it's been? Exactly that. That it's been 4 days, and that you're PROBABLY (and hopefully) not ready to start dating again. Stop thinking about it. Live your life. Don't stress. Do what you usually do. When you're ready, you'll know.
2006-10-09 02:37:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
i think theres nothing wrong on dating someone, your single just go out and enjoy life but dont commit to another relationship unless you're ready to love again.:)
2006-10-09 02:42:56 · answer #5 · answered by Hime 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whenever you are ready. Your heart will know. Meanwhile if you are feeling down, go out more often, afterall you never know who you'll meet. *BeSt WiShEs* ;)
2006-10-09 03:49:13 · answer #6 · answered by Jordaan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ASAP, or however long you feels is long enough(2 weeks maybe?) Nothing serious, just playing the field.
2006-10-09 02:39:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
who on earth would ask u such a stupid question? the only question is "are u marreeid /have a bf?" u say no. who the hell cares about how long u were single?
2006-10-09 02:39:09 · answer #8 · answered by jacky 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
5 min
2006-10-09 02:36:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
you should probably wait until your emothionally stable until then you might want to try hanging with friends and family more and just have some you time.The guy/girl might think they are going to be the rebound.
2006-10-09 02:37:47 · answer #10 · answered by gurrlllll 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋