okay i think im in love but thats just my thought but i see alot of my friend and peers who think there in love and i know there not. Whats your opinion and how do you think you can tell when your in love?
2006-10-08 19:33:30 · 3 answers · asked by scotty 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Being in love with someone is being in love with them (their heart, mind and spirit and NOT for their looks or their pelvic area). Too many people nowadays take the definition of love and warp it to what THEY want love to be....and often times, it's not love at all....just self-serving selfishness masquerading as "love".
Real love is wanting to be with the person....wanting to respect and lift them up completely in all things. To feel complete happiness and fulfillment in being in the company of your person and knowing that the other person feels the same way about you. That you both are prepared to be there for each other and work hard for each other no matter what time of the day it is....much like you would a family member.
Real love is special...and I feel you know when you find it because you will have a feeling that nothing is missing. True love comes by respecting and honoring each other. Nothing is more fulfilling in life when you know that it is real and truthful.
Good day.
2006-10-08 19:49:10 · answer #1 · answered by Jesus S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah you're right, everybody thinks they're in love.. and sometimes they're not. but its just that FEELING people have that others have no word for.. a word between like and love ya know? love is something deeper than deep that you won't know that you're even actually feeling it cause you're having such a fine time with it.. until you start thinking about it thoroughly and have experienced more. then you can ask yourself if you're in love. i know you're a guy and all but from my experience..i always think im in love too when i think too much about my guy.. but im actually not. i'm only so occupied thinking about him pretty much every minute of the day.. catching my own self staring at him.. talking to him.. laughing together. i know it doesn't reallly help when i say you'll really figure out you're in love when the time comes, but just consider it for awhile.
BY THE WAY, I LOVE THE NAME SCOTTY. hahahah
2006-10-09 02:47:48 · answer #2 · answered by indecisive 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being placed under the tag of "love" means little. As long as your happy with someone and don't have to ask yourself if it is "love" then and only then does the undertanding hit you like a brick.
2006-10-09 02:35:26 · answer #3 · answered by Chris H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋