we have been goin out 4 a month && he hasnt been talkin 2 me 4 like 2 days i ahve done nothing
2006-10-08 19:29:22 · 10 answers · asked by Sexcaii 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well ask his whats wrong.....what you did wrong...what you can do to change it and make him forgive you and what you can do to make him feel better.......but before that give him about a few more days because he might need time to cool off and he might come back if hes not gonna dump you
2006-10-08 19:31:51 · answer #1 · answered by anonymous 27 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is your bf working? Cus men tend to be very distant when they have work issues. Men will also not exatcly tell you how they feel. Its a built in thing for men. They never really let their emotions show ubless it really calls for it. Why dont you relax and try to occupy yourself? Show the guy that you're not waiting for him and that you have your own life. Its hard if you have planned your time round him and when he isnt there..its a huge hole in your day and you have forgotten what you used to do to fill it up. My suggestion, dont call him, dont sms him. Go out with frens. Once he realizes, he will come crawling back wondering what has happened. However, if he doesnt bother, honey, you can do SO MUCH BETTER!
2006-10-08 19:50:02 · answer #2 · answered by honeyz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well its only been 2 days, men are like that sometimes & usually there isn't a reason.. They r usually just hanging out with the boys.. If it keeps up.. then talk to him & find out what the problem is..Asking him "whats up" is to be expected..take care
2006-10-08 19:35:28 · answer #3 · answered by lori 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Bubi, You should be thankful that you are finding out how this guy is.It's time to move on and find a normal guy,who will love spending time with you,and treating you with respect.
Clowmy
2006-10-08 19:41:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He must be mad at you or something or feels something is wrong in the relationship.... try to ask him why he isnt talkin to you.. maybe theres a family problem
2006-10-08 19:32:19 · answer #5 · answered by friendlygurl9009 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men tend to be oblivious to female needs. Which is what probably is happening. He doesn't realize that you want to talk to him. My advice is for you to talk to him and please don't sound worried that he hasn't been talking to you. he may be busy and if you do ask him don't make a big deal about it but calmly and sweetly ask him why with a smile on your face.
2006-10-08 19:39:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is definitely testing you, he does like you , and its hard for him waht he is doing, but he sounds like he is testing you so he can have u under his control.. but. if you want things to work out in your favor...Dont worry about him for a few days (3), move on, trust me he will come back to u, just play hard to get for a few days, it will all be under your control then :) good luck.
2006-10-08 19:32:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
we all need a break from time to time...give him some time, dont call him...if he cares about you he'll call you and talk to you, if he doesnt call, just move on...
2006-10-08 19:33:47 · answer #8 · answered by Mila 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give head, or maybe introduce him to anal sex.....then he'll talk to you.maybe.atleast his friends will start talking to you then.
2006-10-08 19:34:00 · answer #9 · answered by thericker 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Screw him then..
2006-10-08 19:31:50 · answer #10 · answered by Claude 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋