Ok so i may sound crazy but i swear i am not...maybe paranoid but not crazy. so i have been dating this guy for awhile and we have talked atleast once everyday we've been together and i see him a couple times a week. well two days ago i was really sick and he had to leave for work so we said good-bye and he left. well i haven't heard from him since. his cell phone is turned off and i don't have the phone numbers of any of his friends. so i have no idea what has happened to him and i am really worried. since i was sick when he left i assumed he would check up on me and it stikes me as very odd that he hasn't and this is why i am freaking out. also him roommates and his mother don't know how to get a hold of me if something did happen. he doesn't have my number memorized and his phone charger is at my apartment. i am really worried and have no idea what to do...please help.
2006-10-08 19:25:16 · 13 answers · asked by spazz2dt 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no i have never been to his place b/c he lives in a trailor that he is not proud of and it is filled with 2 dogs, 3 cats, 2 roommates and their kid. we would have no privacy, and we need our privacy ;-). i've been to his mom's but he drove there everytime so i don't exactly remember how to get there and he is a construction worker so his cell is his work phone. and i don't know how to contact his mom or his roommates, i don't have their numbers like i stated before.
2006-10-08 19:35:08 · update #1
and i wasn't sick like flu sick i was very badly hungover and we've been dating for a few months...not weeks
2006-10-08 19:37:31 · update #2
You will need to call the police if you think he is somewhere he is not meant to be. The local number for the police will suffice, as they may have record of whether he has been in an accident or arrested or is a witness to something etc. If its been long enough consider reporting him missing (the police are much better at finding people).
If they have no record of his name being involved in anything then i suggest you get emergency contact details off the company he works at? (they may not give it to you) But you can still track the mother down provided you know the full name and general address area. Even if you narrow it down to a bunch of numbers to call, I can tell you're rather anxious so just call all of them and see what you get...
I hope this helps in some way just try and eliminate the places where he could be and then go from there.
Good luck girl plz post what happens I hope its a funny story that gives you some relief!
(Just added look for caravan places in the area and limit it to a fair distance which you could work out by how long you would have driven in order to get there)
2006-10-08 19:37:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know where this guy works, ring up and ask if he is there, and leave a message for him. Or maybe ring his Mum. Do you really know this guy and he you. Surely he would have made some sort of contact with you, otherwise he has no feelings. The only other thing I can suggest is ring the hospital and the police. I did this once myself, my boyfriend had gone off for the weekend, without telling anyone.
2006-10-08 19:33:27 · answer #2 · answered by maggie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try not to stress over it. He might just be letting you get over whatever it is that you were sick with
To tell you the truth... if i was him and this chick i had only been seeing for a couple of weeks called my friends and family coz she hadn't heard from me... I'd be FREAKED OUT BIG TIME!!!!
2006-10-08 19:31:34 · answer #3 · answered by pinxta01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a hold of his mother and room mates yourself. Ask if they have seen/ heard from in the past cupla days. If not, perhaps a missing person alert is warranted.
2006-10-08 19:28:38 · answer #4 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have your boyfreind tied up at my house. If u wish to see him again send me 2 gorditas from taco bell by 2 A.M. or I will sell his organs on ebay. Just kidding. But seriously can u bring the gorditas.
2006-10-08 19:43:17 · answer #5 · answered by Shannon S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call his work, his hang outs, the local hospitals, the jail, and all those fail call the police and file a missing persons report.
2006-10-08 19:29:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on obviously you werent important enough to keep in contact with. call the hospitals and local police stations to see if hes in any one of those-know where mom is? go to her home and ask!! i hope you find him well and that he has a darn good explanation for dissin ya----good luck always
2006-10-08 19:30:44 · answer #7 · answered by nonners1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pointless getting stressed out about something you do not know, its like a rocking chair... gives you something to do but gets you no where.
Wait for a phonecall, if there ins't one then do what you can to find him. If you can't find him then move on with your life.
2006-10-08 19:27:35 · answer #8 · answered by Chris H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't you think that you should give him the benefit of the doubt. maybe something urgent came up but if ever he never call back, don't wait for him. you have your own life to live. i'll bet he'll just pop up to surprise you.
2006-10-08 19:45:07 · answer #9 · answered by biboy1437 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
check with the local hospital and the police and see if he might have had an accident or in jail you don't know could be
2006-10-08 19:32:04 · answer #10 · answered by dalecollins64 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋