I took her to court, the judge took my side, I get him back, but only after the end of this school semester. It'll be close to Christmas!! The judge REALLY favors NOT taking a kid out of school, so he's stuck with the witch for two more months, she's trying to brain wash him, he's 15, she's using my child to hurt me, she doesn't care about him, I am concerned for his safety while he is there. How can the judge rule to keep him there. He's missing band, maybe track, he's the fastest kid in school, sets records every time he runs. WHAT CAN I DO!?!?!?!!??!
2006-10-08 18:11:11 · 7 answers · asked by Mystery 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
How far away is his school from where you live? Is it possible to drive him there everyday? Your son is 15 and should be given the chance to decide for himself. the judge should have ask him where he wanted to be. My finacee got to choose between his parents at age 8. He choose his father because his mother was abusive to him. He had never told anyone until he told me when he was 19 years old. Do whatever it takes to protect your son.
2006-10-08 18:15:50 · answer #1 · answered by Kellen's Mom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to take her back to court. If she is intending to violate the court order by running off with your son then do it now before she disappears or hides him away. Since she has custody until the end of the school semester there might not be anything you can do until that time. After that she has to turn him over. However I still recommend going to the judge and making him aware of the situation. He may decide for her to turn him over sooner since she is harming his future by withdrawing him from school. Good Luck
2006-10-08 18:31:37 · answer #2 · answered by Laura R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two months, the judge unless the kid is in danger and you have proof will not change the order. CPS or what ever its called in your area, if you can prove something will take the kid out of her home and bring him to you...Its probably best just to wait the two months, good luck and try not to lose your mind, its almost over with...
2006-10-08 18:26:08 · answer #3 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry to hear that you are going through this difficult time, I really am. Remember that God is watching all of this go on, and he will be protecting your son, and bringing good out of all this. Sometimes things like this are just so hard to understand, but they are out of our control, and all we can do is believe that things will work out. Keep yourself strong mentally and physically so that you can be ready to celebrate when things turn around. Don't worry, your son sounds like a really super kid, and he'll pull through just fine. Kids have a way of coming through things that adults barely know how to deal with, and as far as the brain-washing.......trust that he is 15 and he really DOES know they truth about what is right and what is wrong, and he knows which parent is doing the right thing. Don't stress really, .......PRAY, and just relax and know it'll all work out. My best to you.
2006-10-08 18:17:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get an lawyer for what? You brought about the subject while making use of the hot handle once you weren't certainly residing in it, the faculty is right in no longer allowing him back in because you're actually not on the handle. Signed hire makes no difference while you're actually not certainly residing interior the residing house which you admit you're actually not doing. you haven't any longer any case to need an lawyer for. you may not sue for what could have befell. pass refer to the important and clarify. Then once you're certainly residing interior the residing house your son would have the skill to attend the faculty.
2016-10-15 23:58:20 · answer #5 · answered by rochart 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will be patient , check how he feels, don't use a child as a power weapon between you two, if he is safe with his mom and she loves him, just try to talk to her so you can provide him a better environment, tough if the court order has granted you the custody ,she should not have taken him without you knowing it , she is violating the law,anyway it is hard, I ma going through a hard time in my marriage and he is trying to use our son as a power weapon to hurt me, try to communicate with her, for the good of your son, good luck!
2006-10-08 18:31:00 · answer #6 · answered by Renata F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she can get in trouble for that.call your lawyer or courthouse to make an appt.to see the judge and tell him,the judge said after the school semester well that meant he didnt want to mess up his school year moving him right now that is why he said that but she went and messed it up for him..yep i'd say BIG trouble
2006-10-08 19:52:31 · answer #7 · answered by JENNIFER D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋