I am In Love with two different girls, I fell in Love with one and now I have fallen for a second one.
I love them both just the same (no, they do not know each other)
Why is life so difficult?
........................................Any Suggestions?
2006-10-08 18:09:19 · 24 answers · asked by stephen 1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Become a Mormon and marry both of them. Problem solved.
Hope this helps.
2006-10-08 18:11:45 · answer #1 · answered by An Unhappy Yahoo User 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
make a list of the good reasons you like each of them.
Then make a list of reasons that are negative about them being in your life.
If there is no clear answer. Then you need to take some time away from them both and let yourheart tell you which one is a possible long term relationship.
This also depends on how old you are. If you are 13 you will have this problem many times. If you are 21, things are a bit more serious.....you are getting old enough for a long term commitment. If you are in your 50's you need to use common sense and your experience will tell you what sort of woman you need in your life. When you are older you willl have more of a clear idea of what sort of woman you need in your life
2006-10-09 01:15:12 · answer #2 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What I would do is compare the two of them, there differences, and there alikes, but first write down what you like or wan't in love, then the one that relates more to what you wan't in love go own from there.That will make it less difficult. After that talk to them one at a time be honest and you will have a stronger love for one of them, and less for the other, and believe me this will help.
2006-10-09 01:23:21 · answer #3 · answered by Shas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
May be each of them gives you something different. For example, one of them may have better looks and the other may have a better persona.I would advice you should choose one of them as quickly as possible because you know what happens when you ride two bikes at the same time.
2006-10-09 01:15:00 · answer #4 · answered by enigma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You got to pick one and break up with the other one.
How you arrive at that decision is up to you. Coin toss, list of their pluses and minuses, consult with your friends over which one to keep........whatever.
You just can't love them both. Cause once they find out about each other, than you will have no girl.
2006-10-09 01:13:58 · answer #5 · answered by Ed A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't love them both ....so this is my advice take some time alone just for you no distractions what so ever...just for you to rest and think...yes think! see which one you would rather spend your time with more than the other... which one you can see by your side when you are down the one you can see in every moment of your life..the one youwould do anything for... there is just one of these not 2 .... you can't feel this for 2 people just one..there is just aht one person...
hope you are happy and i wish you well
2006-10-09 01:14:33 · answer #6 · answered by Cutie77 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At YOUR age? Use 2 different hands!
2006-10-09 01:14:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats a good idea it means you live in the fullest in your life,it seems its difficult but you must to test the two girls,like opinion how she live with you how she reason it out in you in relevant manner to your quest.
2006-10-09 01:17:49 · answer #8 · answered by mario t. reoyan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me like you don't truly love either of them...though i'm sure you care about them both. you have to choose between them or choose neither of them...it isnt fair to anyone including you...and believe me woman have ways of finding stuff out so eventually they will find out about each other.
2006-10-09 01:12:40 · answer #9 · answered by my101201cutiepie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age figures in alot. If you are young, then dont worry about it too much. If you are older, over 18, then decide and do it quick.
2006-10-09 01:11:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋