me and my ex have had an off and on relationship for the past 3 yrs. The reason it has been off and on is because he can be so loving one minute and find other things more important the next. For ex. i talked to him 2 weeks ago and we were talking about getting back together and it was a great conversation. It has been 2 weeks since we talked, i tried to call him, i tried to IM him and hes not talking, Do u think hes not interested? or is there someone else?
2006-10-08 18:04:04 · 8 answers · asked by luckiemonkey213 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hello,
If he is not making you a priority then you deserve better.You should let him know you are not going to be there when it is convenient for him. If he cares about you like you do him, he would be talking to you.I went through a very similar experience with my last boyfriend.He would talk about getting back together then blow me off, or ignore my calls.I finally realized that he was not worth it and as hard as it was to move on looking back now I am so glad I didn't put up with it any longer.Funny thing now he would do anything to get back together now he knows what hes missing. (There is three years of history between you two)So stop calling maybe hell realize that you are not gonna beg for him..Hope I helped :)
2006-10-08 20:07:36 · answer #1 · answered by lindz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
isn't there are good reason he is your EX? If he hasn't responded in 2 weeks I'd say move on. The best predictor of future behavior is past behavior. Leopards don't change their spots.
2006-10-08 18:13:05 · answer #2 · answered by winkcat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it, he doesn't want you if he did he would be with you by now.
Guys don't think like we do, he's obviously not into commitment if he wanted to commit to you you would never have had an on and off relationship in the first place.
A relationship is not a game, don't treat it like one......
2006-10-08 18:20:13 · answer #3 · answered by Catherine C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't go back. Its lame. You want someone who is so crazy about you, he can't keep his little arms off you! I say, if you still want him, don't make any kind of contact, you'll sound needy, and he'll run the other way. Eventually he'll call, ignore the first couple, it'll drive him crazy and he'll probably come running back. trust me, I know.
2006-10-08 18:13:01 · answer #4 · answered by T Buhler 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hm i bet that if he is already busy im pretty sure that he is not trying to avoid you unless he is always there when you try and contact him previous to your break up. i think you should totally go back to him if you rly like him again.. at least you guys can hook up MUCH MUCH more easier.. it would be really fun... but don't fall into the same trap you fell into last time
g'luck
2006-10-08 18:14:22 · answer #5 · answered by Leonard S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how long ago did u break up n why? exs r exs for a reason
2006-10-08 18:10:12 · answer #6 · answered by mary b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he realized that he really doesn't want to try again and he is avoiding you
2006-10-08 18:06:30 · answer #7 · answered by aliciarox 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT REALLY SOUND LIKE YOU NEED TO MOVE ON. HE MAY
HAVE SECOND THOUGHT ABOUT GETTING BACK WITH YOU
SINCE YOU HAVE CALL HIM AND HE NOT RETURN YOUR CALL LEAVE HIM ALONG AND MOVE ON.
2006-10-08 18:09:27 · answer #8 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋