In other words, be picky about personality, physical characteristics, income level, education, and religion.
2006-10-08 18:02:26 · 7 answers · asked by BluesRockJazzManiac 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Allow it to just develop on it's own, if you are overly concerned with variables such as money or looks, than you may be missing a chance to be with someone you can be happy with
2006-10-08 18:04:49 · answer #1 · answered by aliciarox 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should always stick to your guns when it comes to real important ethics and values. Personality, you know what you are attracted to and you should not settle for less than that. Physical characteristics: dont date someone who turns you off, that would not be good for you or them. I dont feel that is shallow, I am a big woman and I dont want a man who is only into my personality, he has to be attracted to me. Income level: As long as they are working and doing something that fulfills them, it shouldnt matter how much money they have, as long as they are not a slacker. Education level, you shouldnt be too picky on that one because there are alot of intelligent people out there who are not college educated.Religion issues can be a problem sometimes, as long as you both respect each others differences and can work with that one, it shouldnt be a real problem. No one is perfect and you dont want someone just like you! I know that some differences can actually enhance a relationship, but it is up to you to really sit down and think about what can and cannot be overlooked and or accepted. Hope this helps! Good Luck!
2006-10-08 18:18:52 · answer #2 · answered by Lou Lou 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you become picky with whom you should and should not date, that could be pretty boring..Although personality is really important. physical characteristics come and go..what can you do if she's pretty but has a bad attitude towards others. Income level..well..as long as she's working..why would that matter? Education-some are street smart and smarter than the ones that went to college. you mean your going to discriminate just because she could not afford to go to college? As for Religion, if your not open to any other religion than yours, how can we ever attain peace, unity and diversity in this world?
2006-10-08 18:07:27 · answer #3 · answered by wittlewabbit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can have a set of standards.. but definitely they are not going to appear in a single person. See what u want most out of ur other half.. instead of looking for the ideal.. for it is just so hard to search for an ideal one. Complement each other and u ll be an ideal couple...
2006-10-08 18:05:26 · answer #4 · answered by bluezest27_83 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should let it develop on its own. Now in case of education and income level.....you may want to think about that one. If you're used to dining at the Ritz and she's more used to Denny's then you might be setting yourself up for trouble. Example: Paul and Heather. They hate each other now and he may have to cough up 200 mill....
2006-10-08 18:04:44 · answer #5 · answered by WILSON 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think there should be certain things that you should hold high like the way a person treats you or the way they speak to you or the way they act around you and around other people those other things are really insignificant
2006-10-08 18:10:16 · answer #6 · answered by tamara s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep them high and be alone..or lower them and get some.
2006-10-08 18:04:16 · answer #7 · answered by Roxy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋