recently i have met my long lost fren after 6 yrs we have not met each other. we r in the same secondary school and in the same class. i've known tat he's been admiring me since the 1st time we met. till we both have finish our 'N" level asked me to be his gf. Actually i've been rejecting him quite numbers of time. but he didn't give up. our relationship is very close. during our frienship i've broken up with 3 of my ex bf and he's the 1st person to hear me cry and consult me. everytime when he try to tell he's feeling towards me i will disappear. until the day i got married that is the time tat we totally didn't keep in touch anymore. last yr i just had my divorce. i'm 24 yrs old wif 1 kid. last week i manage to locate my frens thru my ex classmate. i left a msg to my classmate for him to contact me, suprisingly he did called me up. and we meet the next day. tat nite was the most memorable nite 4 me. At last i manage to see him after 6 yrs of separation. and he's happy 2. tat nite
2006-10-08 17:38:35 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we really talk a lot. i feel tat he still have feeling toward by the way he treat me. he's been hugging as if i was his gf and i did response too by hugging him too. we spend about 3 hrs sitting at the beach. after we had our supper he sent me home. b4 we say goodbye i gave him a hug and he kiss me at my forehead. it makes me feel tat he still have feelin towards me. yesterday we have been sms each other. 1 of the msg he told me tat if last time we were 2gether we will be married now. i asked him wether he still have any feeling 4 me now. he told me tat he's not sure let's fate decide everything. he asked me wether i've any feeling 2wards him b4 and now. i told him wat happen if i say yes. he told me let god decide wat is the best 4 the both of us. i've been asking myself why everytime we met we tend to be very close 2 each other. Is it normal for best/close frens? did he still have any feeling 4 me or did he mind my status now? i'm a widow wif 5 yrs old kid. help me please.....
2006-10-08 17:51:17 · update #1
we really talk a lot. i feel tat he still have feeling toward by the way he treat me. he's been hugging as if i was his gf and i did response too by hugging him too. we spend about 3 hrs sitting at the beach. after we had our supper he sent me home. b4 we say goodbye i gave him a hug and he kiss me at my forehead. it makes me feel tat he still have feelin towards me. yesterday we have been sms each other. 1 of the msg he told me tat if last time we were 2gether we will be married now. i asked him wether he still have any feeling 4 me now. he told me tat he's not sure let's fate decide everything. he asked me wether i've any feeling 2wards him b4 and now. i told him wat happen if i say yes. he told me let god decide wat is the best 4 the both of us. i've been asking myself why everytime we met we tend to be very close 2 each other. Is it normal for best/close frens? did he still have any feeling 4 me or did he mind my status now? i'm a widow wif 5 yrs old kid. help me please.....
2006-10-08 17:52:00 · update #2
I am not too sure about his stand at this moment. I believed you hope that he can accept you as his gf at this moment. You must not forget he need to accept the fact that you have a kid with you.
I believe both of you should be frank with each other. Bring along your kid when you meet up with him and let both of them get used to each other. However he don't seems to be very firm on his decision at this moment. Afterall we are still asian where some of us still can't accept certain issues. probably because he isn't sure if he is able to cope with your kid. He may also be considering the fact if your kid is willing to accept him as father. This is not as simple as what you think. Even he had accepted you as his gf, I believe his family members may not be too willing to accept you initially, so these are some of the factors that may have hindered him from making a decision at this moment
2006-10-09 04:52:02 · answer #1 · answered by Clown & Joker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe or Maybe not !! He might have called u because he is a friend or other friends told him to call u ! In this 6 yrs , he might have fallen love with somebody else ! Ask him or it will end up like a story ! U want it to be a fairy tale or just a ordinary story !
Ask for a date and tell him what u feel ! DON'T WORRY U WILL HAVE A HAPPY ENDING !
2006-10-09 00:51:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok since you have explained your situation clearly, i suppose if you want to be with him, you will definately need him to accept your current situation too.
Arrange more meetups with him. You must try to bring along your kid. Most importantly, if he is to be with you, he needs to be able to accept your kid too. He is hestitating with his decision, probably because he isn't sure if he is able to cope with your kid. After all, many things have to be taken into consideration like he is immediately to take up the role of a father and whether he is able to support both you and the child in the future.
2006-10-09 03:04:03 · answer #3 · answered by axix 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He accepts you after all that, and you are asking us?
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What is wrong with how you answered this question?
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2006-10-09 00:43:08 · answer #4 · answered by DM 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2006-10-09 00:42:06 · answer #5 · answered by bobby h 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋