What about with some of her guy friends?
2006-10-08 17:31:33 · 11 answers · asked by s j 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well would you want her to be mad at you when you go with your friends? I got really mad at my boyfriend (he's now my finacee) when I found out he went one night. I have always been the constant girl in his whoel group of friends. Even in school, it was always 'me and the guys'. They all compare the girlfriends to me and ask my opinion of her before dating. So that should give you a hint of our relationship. Anyways, I was really mad. So a few weeks later we all went out. I was in the backseat of the car paying no attention to where we were going. Anyways, you know where we ended up. It took them forever to convince me to go in. But I had been drinking so it wasn't too bad. I got in there and one of my good friends was dancing. I ended up having a lot of fun. Go together. Oh yea and don't think I am crazy there were tons of girls in there. I mean the place was probably 40% girls. And not the dancers either.
2006-10-08 17:40:28 · answer #1 · answered by Kellen's Mom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a guy so if my girlfriend went to a female strip club I wouldn't be mad, unless I suspected she was gay.
If I was a female and my girlfriend went to a female strip club, I would start to wonder if she was gay or not.
If I were a female and a lesbian, then if my girlfriend went to a female strip club I would wonder if she was out looking for someone to replace me!
Women in strip clubs are not anything like men in strip clubs. Men go for only ONE reason, the fantasy of having sexual intercourse with the strippers. If it remains a fantasy, and most of the time it does, then it can be all right. If the guy was married though he wife would probably be wondering, "Why, are you going there? Am I not enough Woman for you? Are you looking to have an affair and do you seriously think that I am going to be here waiting for you? No sir, I am going to leave, and start looking for a divorce attorney!" This is all done in the first 5-10 minutes after she learns that her husband is going to a strip club. A female would be furious if her lover wanted to go to a female strip club, and she would not take it.
The question is from which point of view are you asking this question? Just how important is this girlfriend.
When women go to strip clubs it is a fun night out. They are there to have the fun with their friends, and that is the most important part of the evening. A male at a strip club would be thinking about sex 90% of the time, where a female would be thinking about sex 20% of the time. That's with a female group at a club with male strippers.
Now I wonder why your girlfriend is going to female stripper club, and she wants to go with a group of sexed up males? The average male thinks of sex 52% of the time (from 20/20 on ABC aired Sept 30,2006). Males at strip clubs are thinking about sex 99.99% of the time. If your girl friend wants to start an orgy then she is sure setting up the conditions for one. Even if she is a plain looking woman, after spending an evening with a group of guys in a female strip club then she can get sex with any one of those guys easily.
HELL YEA, I WOULD BE MAD. Why is she going, and what is she planning? A whole lot depends on what kind of girl she is and what kind of girlfriend she is to you, so you haven't given enough information to answer your question.
2006-10-09 00:53:19 · answer #2 · answered by Dan S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I know I wouldn't be mad if my fiance went to a male strip club with his female friends, so I doubt I would be mad about a girlfriend going to a female one.
Heck, if he wanted to go to a female one, I wouldn't care. It's not like anything HAPPENS at them...at least, not legally.
2006-10-09 00:33:45 · answer #3 · answered by Esma 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey; This is a friend most likely going out with her boy friend. Why should it matter? Maybe you and your boy friend and her with her boy friend, the 4 of you should all find time and go out for the day and have a great time.
Don't be angrey with her because she has found someone she likes to be with, she's still your friend.
2006-10-09 00:36:07 · answer #4 · answered by LVieau 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mad? I'd leave her immediately. Though, I would never date someone of that kind of character in the first place.
2006-10-09 00:45:22 · answer #5 · answered by fslcaptain737 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd give her a hard time about it and then question the caliber of her friends... it would make me probably lose a little respect for her, but that's because I'm not a piece of crap...
2006-10-09 00:40:24 · answer #6 · answered by bigcatbarber 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds suspicious..
2006-10-09 00:33:53 · answer #7 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if that happened, then it will be over between us. she will just become someone from the past to me.
2006-10-09 00:34:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I would not be mad.
2006-10-09 00:33:06 · answer #9 · answered by DM 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is a lesbian
2006-10-09 00:32:41 · answer #10 · answered by penguin, or maniacle evil genius 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋