i like this guy, but wasn't sure about him cause he is like my best guy friend..... and he asked me out but my friend kinda said no for me, cause i don't think she wanted me going out with him.. so he gave up and no less than 4 or 5 days later he was going out with another girl.... and he claims he's in love with her..... can that be true
2006-10-08 17:27:06 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
okay...... so.....i got a lot of weird answers for this and some people will prolly not read again.... i'm not some valley girl who likes drama whos seaking attention! i just asked a simple question if a guy can actually like a girl by asking her out right after another girl....thats it! and for the person who told me to go back to shool!? I AM IN SCHOOLL!!
2006-10-09 07:08:53 · update #1
If he told you he is in love with that girl he's lieing to you. He wouldn't have told you that. Express your true feelings to him and do it fast. And also yell at your friend, don't let people ruin the decisions in your life like that. It totally sucks.
2006-10-08 17:29:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guys in love with a girl 4 days after he asked you out, um if you can't figure that out on your own I think it's best you refrain from relationships for a while. I'm a guy, so trust me. If he's going through girls like that he wants one thing only, and that thing is in your pants.
2006-10-08 17:32:37 · answer #2 · answered by alex e 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe hes making your jealous, or hes desperate. I know guys that will do anything. He might not even like you as much as you think. if hes nice and a good friend then he wouldnt try making you jealous, and he'd care more about the way you feel. if he's not some one your friend (the 1 who ansered for u) thinks u shoudl be going out with, maybe hes trouble. or maybe she wants him for herself. if so, she's not a good friend either to do something like that.
2006-10-08 17:31:45 · answer #3 · answered by Me Being Me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you snooze, you lose. Asking a girl out and being told no does not have any grieving period. He can ask another girl out the next minute. As far as him being in love with her, my husband told me that he fell in love with me on our first date and we've been married quite a few years now. So, it can happen.
2006-10-08 17:31:18 · answer #4 · answered by butrcupps 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you ought to stop calling that individual who lied on you your superb mate. No superb mate might do what she did. you will possibly try getting the three of you together to straighten this mess out. Then in front of your boyfriend tell your superb mate that she is jealous and he or she would have sabotaged your dating which comprise your boyfriend. on a similar time tell her you will not enable her a 2d possibility to do this to you, and do what's critical to make that so. that ought to circulate an prolonged thank you to helping issues, even in the experience that your so mentioned as superb mate clings to her lie. on the top of this assembly, one element will verify; considered one of the two has to circulate. it is as much as you to make the appropriate determination which one that is. stable success. ';-)
2016-10-19 01:40:36 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds a bit like jealousy,why is your girlfriend doing all the talking for you in your relationships,that is off putting to a guy
you didnt want to go out with him so would you care if he goes out with someone else, and no he is not in love with her after 4-5days it would seem most unlikeely besides this girl is his second choice
2006-10-08 17:36:09 · answer #6 · answered by fraser_norton 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if I understand your question (it's not ebonics - more like, what? valley-girl-onics?), you turned the guy down, he cast his line again and the fish he landed is one he likes.
So you're history.
That's what you get for being stuck up.
2006-10-08 17:30:52 · answer #7 · answered by A_Patriot 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Are you serious? You can't fall in love with someone that fast!
2006-10-08 17:29:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should go back to school and start studying.
2006-10-08 17:28:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
naww he probably just wants to make you jealous
2006-10-08 17:28:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋