Why do guys always have to be touchy feely?? Like running up and grabbing your shoulders or pinching your sides and grabbing your arms, etc?? It doesn't bother me at all, especially if it's a guy I'm attracted to, but what if your workmates and schoolmates do it and also tell a friend of yours that you are hot? Are they harmlessly flirting or do they really like you??
2006-10-08 16:53:31 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
all guys don't do this. infact I only know of one. i think it's creepy. it's like being sneaky or something. then again i am not that into public displays of affection.
get a room
2006-10-08 18:00:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are flirting. Some harmlessly, others deliberately trying to get you into their sack, if you are not aware of their possible motives and the affects that physical touching has on the female body. You have the right to tell them to stop it if you do not wish to be grabbed or pinched and they will respect your wishes if they want to stay friends with you!
2006-10-08 17:01:45 · answer #2 · answered by Jess4rsake 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could work either way. Because sometimes it's exactly that, harmless flirting that doesn't lead to anything.
If the guy in question here is not married/ attached, maybe he's into you. Otherwise, he's just not.
Although personally, if a guy is bold enough to be all out PDA on you... wouldn't he at least have the decency to tell you up front on his feelings for you?!
It's just odd to me that he'd rather tell his buddies than be telling it to you that you're hot, just my opinion=)
2006-10-08 17:26:49 · answer #3 · answered by ViRg() 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know it is really hard to tell in situations like this because guys have a tendency to show affection by touching. They think that all girls like things like that and sometimes it is just harmless flirting and sometimes they really do like you but trying to see how far you will go. If things get to far and they start touching you in the wrong way then you need to ask him.
2006-10-08 16:58:58 · answer #4 · answered by Ask Ashlynn!!!! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of young people do that and some adults, the reason beeing, they don't know what to say so they use the push or pinch for an opener, but it's stupid, and will never get them to 1st base!
2006-10-08 16:58:30 · answer #5 · answered by Michael 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys are very stupid and crazy. ONe day they like you, the other they're hitting on your best friend. If you don't like the guy who's touching you, then pull away! If you do like him, then its all good. Plus, some guys don't even realize they're flirting. Other's think it would even be okay to tell their own best girl friend that they're hot. Good luck.
2006-10-08 16:59:19 · answer #6 · answered by Me Being Me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats just like the natural way of guys. They may not be flirting just being themselves, they like the idea of touching anything on a girl.
2006-10-08 16:55:59 · answer #7 · answered by answerer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys will do this just to see your response, but if it makes you uncomfortable in any way it really is sexual harassment...if it bothers you make sure you tell them to stop, and if they don't go to a teacher or parent about it
2006-10-08 16:56:39 · answer #8 · answered by chocolatechip333 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any man who is "touchy feely" is looking for excuses to touch you, which means he likes you.
2006-10-08 16:58:25 · answer #9 · answered by Kylie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that unsolicited touching is really telling someone that you like them. I think it's rather a little weird. If you want someone to like you, you have to get to know them as a person, not as an object.
2006-10-08 16:56:51 · answer #10 · answered by calliope 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋