How do I get her attention?

Question

How can I start a conversation with the girl I like? my problem is that am a little shy and we have not talked, even though i know she likes me.

Answer 1

Just say hi. Ask her about a book she's reading or how a class she's in is going. Neutral topics, but ones that she could get excited or angry about. (The anger wouldn't be directed at you, but it would show you a bit of her passion!)

Answer 2

Here's a tip, for the next two weeks, just walk up and talk to every girl who's in your age range, have no expectations of them liking you or being nice or wanting to spend time with you, the purpose is to get rid of the shyness in side you.

Remeber the first day of school? You were shy and nervious,Yes! Now, it's no big deal, see my point. The more you ask, the easier it will become. Just walk up to no less than 10 girls you don't know and talk to them, ask them simple open ended questions. This way you will not get a yes/no answer.
By doing this you are learning how to continue a conversation.

Also ask your english teacher after or before class, some how too's to use, she will be very helpful, and would be willing to give several examples, tell her you are working on getting rid of your shyness, this way.

Answer 3

Well just star6t by saying hello, how are you doing. Then ask her about the surrounding that you are in, like if you see he in the park ask her about the weather or the something thats going on at that time. Then talk about the other places you have bumped into her, and just make light conversation and make her laugh. Smile at her and make eye contact, if you keep eye contact for a couple of minutes while your talking, then you know you got her attention.

Answer 4

Ask her to go out for a cup of coffee or a bite to eat or to dinner then you can have a nice conversation! Have fun! If you are terribly shy hand her a card asking her out and give her a nice smile! You could send her some flowers to break the ice! Try not to be afraid to ask her if she likes you then you should not be disappointed! Believe me all people are like this-afraid to get too close!

Answer 5

Let's see, you're a shy guy but you KNOW that the girl likes you... hmm... what a tangled web we weave...
I guess go up and ask her anyway? I mean you're both into each other --> that much you know is true.
You've nothing to lose except maybe her, your ego, etc. But at least you'll feel better that you've given it a shot.
Just make small talk on any current issues that you feel may interest her or comment on her appearance, outfit, etc. Take it slowly from there.

Answer 6

I found a book that had some interesting questions to ask in order to (hopefully) get a conversation going. I think it was called 1000 questions or something like that.

Answer 7

trying saying, "hi" with a smile, and maybe even let that shy thing show a bit. do it someplace where you are limited to a max of 3 minutes time to talk (if you are in school together and see her in the hallway, perfect.) just a hi and smile and GO. next time add the "what's up?"

Answer 8

Just remind yourself that she is a real person with real feelings.
Try to concentrate on her interests, the environment you share together, current events in your lives, family, fun things to do and your goals, values and beliefs. If you approach her from an attitude of interest, she will be very happy to share her ideas with you. Best wishes.

Answer 9

Well,tehre is only 1 thing u can do: go up 2 her and ask her about herself and: actually listen! Just become her friend and see if u really do like her,if u do ask her if she wants 2 hangout sometimes and have it planned incase she says yees,Good luck babe!

Answer 10

ur just gonna have to go up and talk to her...talk about anything..ask her questions...get her to open up. find something u guys mutually do