Serious opinions only?

Question

What are the signs of knowing you haven’t yet gotten over someone.
What do you think is the matter if you’ve been missing someone all this time, but when you kiss them again, you wish you could take it all back.
I’ve been out with this person twice already, and I’ve been just wanting to move on but I can’t manage to find out a way to. Serious answers only please

Answer 1

you need to find something of interest to do to help take your mind of him......try reminding yourself why he is no good for you....and then sweety sorry for the cliche but it takes time......be strong and take care......it does get easier

Answer 2

It's only natural. It always happen like this when you break up with someone who has been important to you somehow. Maybe you were together for a long time, or maybe it was just a short time but was a very intense relationship. Whatever the case is, you just have to let it be. You can never forget a person overnight. Just try to find other things to keep your mind busy. Go out, get a job (a different one, if you're already working), go to the movies by yourself. You have to spend some time alone to remind yourself that you can actually exist without this other person. You did before, why not after? If you're lucky, once you're doing so, maybe you'll find another person... good luck!

Answer 3

You should be honest with this person right now. Its' the thing to do., he will respect you in the end. We have become a generation where we don't speak our minds & hearts. He is probably a good person, or you wouldn't of gone out twice with him right? You still need time to get over the 1st guy. You never know, a little time apart may prove that this is the true guy for you. Just be honest with him, respect his feelings, and he will intern respect yours., honesty is always the best policy! When you can't seem to either sleep,eat or work, then your heart & mind is really in love. You have to feel that you want to spend every waking moment with a guy., in good & bad. This is probably love. So just tell the new guy, you need some space right now, and go talk to the young man, lay your cards out on the table & see if he feels the same way. I hope I understood your question. Hon, don't spend your life with a person that you don't truily love or respect., life is too short !!

Answer 4

Ok this is what I've always told my friends and myself. When I cannot look at another man when I go out in public and think he's cute and wonder how I can catch his eye and have no interest or stop checking them out, then I'm not ready and need more time be myself and cycle through emotions and soul search. Don't push yourself! It's OK to go months or years without having a boyfriend. Who ever said we had a time limit to get a boyfriend....whoever said we had to have one? You should just enjoy this time to do things that you can't normally do if you were in a relationship....and hey, you only have to answer to yourself. lol... Isn't that great!?

PS - I think you were in love with the nostalgia of what once was. Now that you have him back it's not the same and you have already cycled through your emotions. It's not the same because you've analyzed the relationship and now he repulses you. It's time to move on even if it hurts. Be strong and let go.

Answer 5

time, time and more time --that is the essence of life and the solution to many problems. we all had "heart/love"problems. no one makes an exception. that is rule no. one to make you feel better. rule no. 2 -- the world is wide open --specially if you are young, cheerful, cultured etc. you just have to grab the moment and move on. the reason you are NOt getting over is simple -- it is mainly because you are not doing enough activities (social and personal) once you do your activities he will rescind in the background and you can go on with your life. this is a serious answer from someone who was there. of course, good friends can help too -- to get you into the mood of new activities --unfortunately they disappear when your mood is down. c'est la vie. that is life. good luck --you need a bit of it.

Answer 6

If you can kiss him and wish to take it back then it is time for you to move on. You are just not ready to let go. You need to go out with friends and do things. Just have fun. It will get better. Time does help. You just need a change from the current situation.

Answer 7

Sounds to me like you were really into this person - and it just wasn't mutual. I know everyone says it "takes time" but until you find something to remove it from constantly being on your mind I'm gonna say you're S.O.L. Suggestions: Go out with some friends. Do something you really enjoy and HAVE FUN (even if it feels like you can't) .... before ya know it, it's not going to seems as bad as it does right now. You were good b-4 you met that person - you'll be fine now. Holler at me if you need to talk.

Answer 8

You still have feelings for this person. But the best way to move on is to find a goal that you have never accomplished or tried nad go for it. Trust me good things come out of this. You find out what your really made of in the sitiuation.

Answer 9

When I couldn't stop calling the person, I knew that I wasn't over them(after the fact). I finally told them when they called me one day(after many months of back and forth and being burned) to stop calling me and I was with someone else. It felt good to be the one to cut it off, felt like closure. What helped me was getting back out into the dating scene. Then I wasn't dwelling on that relationship that I was really over.

Answer 10

If you have been with the person again, that shows you are not over them. If you find yourself thinking about them all of the time... you're not over him. You just have to move on, cut all ties with him. It is hard, but you have to be serious about it!

Start dating again, that helps.

Answer 11

If you think about them like 24/7 and it hurts you just to see them walk by, and all you can hope is that they are miserable without you. I know the feeling and it totally sucks.