i was with this man 11 years ago. he recently looked me up and we began talking.he came and spent the weekend with me and that was wonderful. well, when he left he made no mention of when or if we will talk or see each other again. i truly believe he is my soul mate.
2006-10-08 16:26:18 · 21 answers · asked by here to help 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Alright ladies hold your horses. You just can't assume of something so small. I bet most of you found husband or boyfriends first by physical attractions. -.-'' and you don't have to doubt about her belief about him being her soulmate. HE CAN BE!! SO STOP BITING HER HEAD OFF!!!! ^.^ to answer this question we'll need updates on the relationship >> plz don't pass this, because of people negative opinions (>> some just hate because most guys they see only want their *** instead of them...) now don't jump head over heels. You need to be keen and listen to the lovely thing called "FEMALE INTUITION" trust me it never lies. All i have to say is good luck, try out, see if it works out.
2006-10-08 16:37:07 · answer #1 · answered by drE-drE 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you believe that he is this soul mate then just don't try to see it is real till you find out why he came back could be he was having a spat and you keep coming up as a alternative plan that's the why i see guys, something you have as far as contact information to move on this wants or is he just gone again,and how was this man eleven years ago ending the first relationship
2006-10-08 23:41:32 · answer #2 · answered by bev 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that if he had intentions of being more than a one night stand he would have made it a point to let you know that you will be talking soon or seeing each other soon. Sorry but it may have just been a nice weekend with an old flame and nothing more.
2006-10-08 23:31:11 · answer #3 · answered by sleep2dream65 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he felt like he was your soul mate then more then likely he would have been keeping in some kind of contact with you. While you may have had a wonderful time with him that may have been all he was looking for a good time! I hope that he does get back in touch with you soon-If he cares for you he will! GOOD LUCK! Love can be such a hard thing sometimes!
2006-10-08 23:35:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it kinda sounds like a booty call to me,sorry im not trying to be mean but if he felt the same way he would have told you he wanted to see you again id say wait if this happens again then you know it is just a booty call,whats the worst that could happen if you hook up for another weekend you have great sex thats not so bad just dont put your heart into this one if and until you know more about his intentions, and then you need to move on.unless that's all your interested in then who am i to say.but i must say i met a guy over the phone one time and he sounded like he could be the one you know my soul-mate he was charming and understanding and he knew all the right the things to say.well we were planing a weekend together and i was so excited couldn't wait to be with my soul-mate, but then i asked him so what happens after we spend the weekend together he said i dont know i thought wed just make each other happy. in other words he wasn't looking for more like i assumed,and i am so glad i didn't end up being his fool.
2006-10-08 23:29:36 · answer #5 · answered by my space 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, i think he probably does. Can you call him and just talk? I think it would be great for you to do that then he too would know your still interested in him. Sounds like you both really care about each other in my book. Anyway follow your heart what do you have to lose? Go on and pick that phone up and give that guy a call and let him know how wonderful your weekend was too you just like your telling us here now. Good luck!
2006-10-08 23:30:13 · answer #6 · answered by sammy 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm 50 y.o. and I've met many "soul mates". Now I'm with a man who is my friend and companion. The reality of the relationship is what counts. If he's not there with you on that "soul mate" belief how could he be your soul mate. sorry.
2006-10-08 23:31:57 · answer #7 · answered by sheree_98133 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to say it doesn't sound like it or else he would have set up another time to see you, you should move on and forget about him. When a man loves you, you will know it. There wont be any question about it, trust me. there are plenty of other better men out there for you. You just have to be patient for one to come along, good luck!
2006-10-08 23:34:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, I would say if he doesn't show up in a week or so, then he just had to move on. In any case, he should fo have been more clear about his intentions and plans before leaving.
2006-10-08 23:35:25 · answer #9 · answered by OC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its to early to tell it could have been just a great weekend for him at this point.
2006-10-08 23:31:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋