In a nutshell, there was this guy I fooled around with 4 years ago, i was 16. This was at a summer program we went to at a university. Since then we talked on AIM for 3 of the years since then and then summer of last year we talked on the phone alot. I'm now a sophomore in college and during freshman year, i didn't talk to him once. Last night out of the blue he called me saying he was on my campus and asked if he could come by my room. I said sure thinking that we would just talk. One thing led to another and we ended up having sex. (it was my first time) Today I found out that he perhaps has a girlfriend. And it's screwed up because even if he does, I like him a lot and the way he treats me seems like he cares about me too. I dunno if he's just a player and good at it or if he really cares about me. And I know that he may have a girlfriend but i like him a lot and i want to be with him, even if that's wrong. I just don't know what to do or how to feel.
2006-10-08 16:19:27 · 5 answers · asked by IlliniChick 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He has a girlfriend. What you want doesn't enter into the picture. You made yourself "easy" and allowed a guy to use you. You need alot of growing up before you get into any type of relationship with a guy.
2006-10-08 16:24:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
IM SORRY TO SAY BUT IF HE HAS A GIRLFRIEND, IT REALLY
DOES NOT MATTER, YOU AND HE SHOULD HAVE REALLY
TALK ABOUT WHAT REALLY GOING ON. NOW THAT YOU
HAVE FEELING FOR HIM, RATHER HE HAS GIRL FRIEND ARE
NOT IS THE ISSUS THE ISSUE IS THAT YOU SHOULD HAVE
GOT TO KNOW HIM BEFORE YOU SLEEP WITH HIM. OUT
OF THE BLUE HE COMES BY THAT REAL GOOD. SO
ONLY THING YOU CAN DO IS ASK BUT HE SOUND LIKE
SOMEONE THAT YOU MAY NEED TO LEAVE ALONE.
2006-10-08 23:29:12 · answer #2 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
does he or doesn't he have a girl-friend? it sounds a bit like to be or not to be. to put things in perspective and logical sequence --if you don't make a move --you will never know. if you don't ask you will never know. so instead of staying "put" just do something, call, write, e-mail, knock on the door, invite...action by itself brings with it a response and you are ahead. good luck. enough said. and you are to make the action no one else.
2006-10-08 23:25:11 · answer #3 · answered by s t 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry. You need to not get involved with him if he has a girlfriend. He will treat you the same way he treats her. Plus it sounds like he is using you.
2006-10-08 23:24:02 · answer #4 · answered by Desiree S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
best thing to do is to talk to him or ask a friend if he has. read tips on dating and more on this site to help you better
2006-10-08 23:24:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋