What do you do when you feel you're not good enough for the world?

Question

And you blame yourself for everything and just hate everything about yourself...

Answer 1

change yourself or commit suicide.

stop exaggerating. change what you don't like. spend time near people that are much worse off than you. find things that you do like and emulate them.

that is what i did. i started dressing like Ace Frehly because he is awesome yet i am my own man seeing as my psychik powers are far superior. he has none that i know of. so me = superior. he doesn't have a bike that is BMX either.

Answer 2

First of all know that GOD loves you no matter what you are or what you have. His love is the truest love of all and He will never forsake you.
Don't let the world dictate who you are and the love you have for yourself,for the things of the world are not perfect. You will never be able to please anyone there will always be something someone doesn't like and you should only please them in Godly ways not for their approval of you.
You were created in your mother's womb by GOD, who created all things. And all the things that GOD made were good; He didn't create no junk!!
I know it can be hard, for I too have felt this way as I am sure many others as well. You will get through it. It always seemed as if that things never went right.
Stop speaking on the negative and speak what you want the outcome of your situation to be. If you keep speaking on the negative that is all you get. There is a verse in the bible that states " what ever you think in your heart; so be it" Remember that. This has truly helped me and my relationships with others and daily life.
Give yourself TLC and love yourself and you will be able to give that to someone else.
You are right you are not good enough for the world and neither am I we are in a better position... We are good enough for the most High, Jesus Christ who is above all things including this world.
Its going to take one day at a time but you will make it. Stay in prayer. Speak what you want the outcome of your situation to be. Stay focused and ready. Love yourself in the eyes of yourself not this world for its not perfect so why would you want to create an image of yourself from unperfect views.

Be blessed and best regards

Answer 3

You talk to a friend. I read your profile and you shouldn't blame yourself. You were born bipolar...you didn't ask for this disease, so just know that your feelings are from IT and not you. You're way too young to have been diagnosed with this. They typically wait until the late teens, early twenties before they give you a label so huge. I hope you're able to cope with it. It's really no different than being diabetic or heart disease....it's a medical condition. That's all. Don't let it control who you are and who you are supposed to become. I know depression....I'm not bipolar, but a very good friend is. I've been feeling down today because of my personal issues and actually thought about just quitting life. I'm NOT good enough. I hide behind the persona online and I have my share of friends here, but in reality, I'm not open. I can't tell my friends when I hurt or even why. I don't express myself like I do here. Because I'm afraid someone will tell me I'm not good enough. So, yeah, I know where you're coming from, but you have to remember that it WILL get better. Especially for you. You've got a whole life ahead of you. It's people like me who missed the boat and it doesn't look like it's coming back for me anytime soon......

Answer 4

sit down in a silent place with some silent music on and think of what made you feel as such . weigh yourself in a rating scale of 10 and analyse all your good points in life. select only the good points and then see how much you have really done , it might be more than even what you think. then try to analyse ways in which you can help yourself to put in the best next time . you would really feel that you were good enough for the world but you have never understood it and you will start to dig up ways to show to the world who you are .

Answer 5

Most people feel that way sometimes. If you feel that way longer than two weeks at a time, tell your doctor about it. It may just be a simple chemical imbalance that will go away with medications that even pregnant women can take. A dear friend of mine finally went on SSRI medications and at 40 she said she finally felt like she was truly happy. She said that it was autumn and she looked at the leaves changing color and thought, for the first time in decades, how amazing life is. She also said that she wished she had gone sooner and found herself way before she actually did. Better late then never. hope yours is short term, but if it isn't it's really an easy cure.
Wishing you well...

Answer 6

Sorry you feel that way. Focus on the things you like to do and those things that make you feel better. Late at night when you are feeling down, pick up the phone, telephone crisis hotline or the boys & girls club. They have 800 numbers. No need to give your name. You can be whoever you wish. Just talk, someone is willing to listen. You belong here. You are not a mistake. As disgusting as maggots are, they have a very important job to do. As disgusting as someone put in your head and you think you are, you have a very important job to do. DON'T STOP TALKING.

Answer 7

Think that there must me a solution.. realize that its not the end of the world and if people cant accept you for who you are then THEY are the problem. You shouldnt blame yourself for everything because its not ALWAYS your fault... you just have to realize that and it will make you feel much better.

Answer 8

Hay.
I've been there. Sorry to hear you feel like this, it's crap.
Don't expect to feel better in one day, it takes allot of "work".
Meaning just look around you and you’ll see people who love you.
Remember just look up and smile, forget what any one else think. I'm shore you are a lovely person. Just look at your self every day and tell your self you’re a are great person.

Never give up, live is greate once you give it a chance.

People will love you, people will hate you. That's what makes up so strange and unique in our own ways.

I do hope you get over this. GOOD LUCK.

Answer 9

Accept the things you cannot change. Change what you can. Live a simple life. Make sure you have what you need to survive. Roof over your head, food on your table, clothes on your back. Learn to let go of what is not important to everyday life. Talk to someone who really cares about you often. Give yourself a chance to relax as often as you can. Take it day by day.

Answer 10

Wake up... realize that all the things you know for a fact you are good at... can benefit someone else.... Not only that.. but even though you think that you are not loved... there is someone out there that is waiting to have you in their life, and they need your love.... You are needed... trust me. You just don't see it or know it right now I have been in your situation before.. Once i was in jail for 2 weeks and I had no one, including my family. Then, friends, people i didn't even think would be there for me were there. You are not alone. There are people out there that love you. Even if you don't see it, they are there. There are people that love you that you haven't even met yet. But if you do something stupid, you wont be able to take advantage of it. Stick in there... People Love you.

Answer 11

Sounds like you are tormented by the bondages of rejection; guilt, shame & condemnation; pride (in the form of self pity) and self hatred. Jesus gave His life and rose again in power so that you can not only have salvation and healing, but also deliverance from all bondages. You can live free and victorious if you choose to! Everyone has something good to offer the world. To know your purpose, you must ask the creator. Take your eyes off of your self and see how you can meet a need in the world. Find a good church that teaches the full gospel of wholeness--spirit, soul (emotions, intellect, & will) and body.

Isaiah 61
The Year of the LORD's Favor
(Note: Speaking of what Jesus came to do)
1 The Spirit of the Sovereign LORD is on me,
because the LORD has anointed me
to preach good news to the poor.
He has sent me to bind up the brokenhearted,
to proclaim freedom for the captives
and release from darkness for the prisoners, [a]
2 to proclaim the year of the LORD's favor
and the day of vengeance of our God,
to comfort all who mourn,

3 and provide for those who grieve in Zion—
to bestow on them a crown of beauty
instead of ashes,
the oil of gladness
instead of mourning,
and a garment of praise
instead of a spirit of despair.
They will be called oaks of righteousness,
a planting of the LORD
for the display of his splendor.

God loves you because He is love. Believe and accept His love!

Click the referenced link to read Psalm 139 to find out how much God loves you and how often He thinks about you. Accept it and love Him back with your whole heart, mind, body, soul and strength.

Note: This version is from the Message Bible. You can change the translation when you get to the site if you like, but this version is in a more modern conversational tone:

Allow God to polish you a little more each day so that His light can shine brighter and brighter through you! Take life moment by moment; we are all on a journey to perfection. Realize that you are on the journey and begin to move forward towards God. Your steps might be shakey like a toddler learning to walk, but you will gain strength as you continue to walk toward Him. Soon you will run into His presence where you are changed more and more into that image that He holds of you in His thoughts.

Keep coming out and looking up!