English Deutsch Français Italiano Español Português 繁體中文 Bahasa Indonesia Tiếng Việt ภาษาไทย
All categories

i'm 15 and so is he. so whenever we were in history class last year, he kept on asking me how the tests went for me.. but then when we get them back he braged that he got A's. And then on the street, he randomly called out my name, and started asking me if i knew how the final would be graded. i mean hello! do i look like the teacher? I never gave my name to him and his friends don't know me. he was in the history class after mine.. so he couldn't have known my name from class.
so this year we have a class together, i find him staring at me all the time. and today he finally talked to me to see if i understood a concept. all i said was "no". i felt so bad afterwards!! we sit half way across the room from each other, but he stares at my face for about 95% of class time. and i just don't get what he wants. can't he talk?? do you think he'll ever talk to me? he is quite cute....
he's pretty popular.. and i'm just regular. could that be it?

2006-10-08 16:09:29 · 13 answers · asked by Maria18 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

13 answers

Honey, that's not a problem. Boys that age have trouble communicating with girls but he's doing better than most so throw him a bone if you are interested. Start a conversation or just say hi or even give him a smile if you catch him staring at you. If you aren't interested just be casual but try not to hurt his feelings. Love doesn't necessarily only stay in its own click. If he is interested he WILL talk to you again, just go with it when it happens. GOOD LUCK!

2006-10-08 16:14:38 · answer #1 · answered by heather 3 · 0 0

WOW!! this guy can't make it more obvious that he has a crush on you! well thats good, and don't trip cuz he's all popular and ur just regular thats the same way it was with me n my boy friend he was the cool lil'gangta everyone liked n i was just a nobody till he asked me out. We've been together for 1yr n 4 months and everythings great. I think you should just talk to him go with the flow and if it happens don't be scared let it happen but be smart about it!! LOVE ALwayz n good luck!

2006-10-08 23:52:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

your whole thing to yourself is the last line nothing else is important. you just turned the tables on him when you said that I'm just a regular hmm-mm!, be the manipulator going to work on him. play it so that it is a sweet end game or if you chose it will remain in your ball park and not his. if you want him out of your her, then be prepared to be gentle and nice but controlling so he doesn't get anything for his efforts, but you will have to defuse this to but you do See that you've done games that make other loose interest because you make it your point to go through his problem in his face slow enough so he see that it was embarrassing from the start that he was going to make you look like an easy girl, but you can at any time put your hand in the air in class and ask the teacher to control his behavior

2006-10-08 23:22:10 · answer #3 · answered by bev 5 · 0 0

I think that you just need to relax a bit and stop trying to figure out what everything he does/says means because if he gets a hint of that he will think he can have you easily. It sounds like he likes you, so next time when he talks to you make sure you answer with more than one sylabel! Also why dont you go up to him at the end of the next class and ask him what he thought..that way it doesn't look like he is making all of the effort

2006-10-08 23:13:04 · answer #4 · answered by Knowitall 4 · 0 0

Hey there- so your a regular and he's popular- well defined.
Just be you- if he is interested or you are- make sre he knows it with a cute smile his way- or a glance his way that way he knows your responding to him staring 95% of the time - ask him if hes interested in cathcing a movie sometime. Good luck

2006-10-08 23:15:40 · answer #5 · answered by Sampson 1 · 0 0

Seems to me like he is trying to get your attention and is using the only connection that you both have at the moment, why don't you try talking to him first next time, about something other then the class that you have together. Maybe about sports or a school function or something and see where it goes.

2006-10-08 23:12:24 · answer #6 · answered by babydoll121070 3 · 0 0

he likes you girl, and he's trying to get your attention somehow even if he comes across annoying. lol . anyways. Maybe because you're different he finds that cool and wants to hang out with you.hey you could try talking to him first nothing and maybe he'll see that you're cool and friendly and he'll ask you out eventually. But dont think about all that too much, you're still young and should be concentrating in school. All that boy stuff aint going nowhere.

2006-10-08 23:18:52 · answer #7 · answered by cattiva 1 · 0 0

he's just being a boy. sometimes boys don't know how to get girls attention. so they just act like a guy, if you know what I mean. He might talk to you, and if he does, just be nice to him see where it goes. But hey, you are only 15, later on, it's really not about who's popular

2006-10-08 23:22:44 · answer #8 · answered by Ask&Receive 2 · 0 0

I would totally earase last yr from my mind... he was acting like a typical 14 yr old guy... all macho as not to let his friends know he even noticed you... so let last yr go and start over with this young man.... rofl, he prob is embarrased about last yr !!! and is afraid of even approaching you this yr because of it... so let the guy off the hook and smile at him... all you can do is try it... if he responds then go from there...... God bless

2006-10-08 23:14:34 · answer #9 · answered by Annie 7 · 0 0

Anyone who stares that much has got problems. No girl is just regular and being cute is blinding you to how wierd this guy is acting.

2006-10-08 23:17:43 · answer #10 · answered by bardstale 4 · 0 0

fedest.com, questions and answers