2006-10-08 16:07:11 · 24 answers · asked by wondering 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
gee, I wonder. . .
2006-10-08 16:08:29 · answer #1 · answered by mountain_laurel1183 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Maybe your dad finally decided that you are older enough to be on your own- I mean, you are 30 years old. It's time to move out and live on your own.
I mean, I am only 22 years old and I don't live in my parents' home anymore.
Maybe it's time for you to do the same
2006-10-08 23:09:26 · answer #2 · answered by TheDeafCollegeStudent 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've got two major problems;
A. You're 30 years old and still living with dad.
B. You have no idea why he wants you out.
I hope this is a joke. If not you have a lot to learn (quickly).
Your development as an adult can be significantly effected by your still iving at "home". As proof.... I offer you the fact that you don't understand why your being asked to leave.
Please seek some assistance. This is serious. Good luck.
2006-10-08 23:16:29 · answer #3 · answered by Common Sense 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, I would ask, why are you living at home? 30 years young,
is time to want to live your own life, in your own home or apt.
Are you handicapped in some way.........that is a totally difference situation......If you are, and he still wants you out....
tis bad. However, contact social services in your area.
They can help you find a place, and even pay for it and give you money for food. Honestly, they can.
If you need help, cannot walk, talk, or something like that...
they will help you with that also.
If you are ok, nothing wrong, just lazy....mmmmmm.....
What would you do, if it was your kid?
Sincerely hopes this helps......
2006-10-08 23:14:59 · answer #4 · answered by Eve 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Oh boy, if you have to ask what's wrong then that's part of the problem. It's time to leave the nest little bird. Unless your parents depend on YOU for income or help or something then you need to get out there and get a life. Maybe they would like to get on with their lives too (yes, parents do have lives also!). So make everyone happy and get your own place.
2006-10-08 23:11:05 · answer #5 · answered by heather 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Although, technically it's nothing wrong with still living with your parents, why would you want to? I moved out last year out of my parents house because I needed my space and I needed to be queen of my domain. But, your dad just probably thinks your still his responsiblity even though your probably not but to him you living there it's still a thought in his mind. I hope this makes sense.
2006-10-08 23:28:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe because you're 30 and still living at home! he just wants you to be able to live and thrive on your own. you should, by now, have a job and an apartment at the least...all on your own. it does suck that you may be getting the boot. it is tough surviving in todays world. but i think daddy's just lookin out for the best in ya..
2006-10-08 23:09:48 · answer #7 · answered by jess l 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't live at home forever, get out and get a place of your own. You'll be happier in the long run and get more action that way. Your dad is thinking about you, you aren't growing up and independent if you stay with him indefinately.
2006-10-08 23:09:46 · answer #8 · answered by bluechick 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
maybe he feels like you are old enough to live life outside of the nest. maybe he wants alone time, 30 years old you should be living on your own. Why aren't you? what's stopping you from leaving? Maybe talk it over with him and find out exactally why he wants you to move.
2006-10-08 23:09:36 · answer #9 · answered by sexylittlemisstweetybird83 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
because its time for your parents to do their own things without having to look after some 30 year old that lives in the basement. it's time for you to move on with your life
2006-10-08 23:08:37 · answer #10 · answered by justasking 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I guess he would like to think he raised his child to be independant and would like his house back after 30 years of having to share! lol Really he is probably wanting to think about retiring and being able to have his life back. You are supposed to be out on your own living your own life, let him live his.
2006-10-08 23:18:47 · answer #11 · answered by Kellie W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋