2006-10-08 16:06:03 · 8 answers · asked by girly3256 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I believe that in a relationship, things are 50/50. Sometimes people are in a hard spot and may be short on cash and they need a little assiatance. If the person ask you for money sometimes then I dont see anything wrong with it especially when you are really involved with them and you really like/love them, but if everytime you turn around they ask you for money, thats a no,no. Thats a red flag right there that they might be a full gold digger or a gold digger in training. If the person know when you get paid and on that day, the day before, or the day after they come and ask you for money or for you to buy them something, thats not right. Then and only then should you look at the type of person you are dating.
2006-10-08 16:34:47 · answer #1 · answered by Ask Ashlynn!!!! 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'd ask a lot of questions and never loan more than you can lose because you may never get it back. $50 should be the limit and get a promissary note. Go to www.judgejoebrown.com and print one out. You have to protect yourself. There are too many crooks around.
2006-10-08 16:13:51 · answer #2 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When that person you are dating asks for money say yes only a girl ,depends what they want it for.
2006-10-08 16:13:46 · answer #3 · answered by Rosheeda C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would. Sometimes people just need a little extra cash. And if they feel comfortable enough to ask for money, then hopefully your relationship is going well, and you should have nothing to worry about.
2006-10-08 16:09:49 · answer #4 · answered by Ask&Receive 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it a one time thing or is it all the time? If it is all the time, they may be using you for money. Next time they ask, tell em you really don't have it and see what they do!
2006-10-08 16:08:49 · answer #5 · answered by babydoll121070 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What is the money for, how much is it, are they just wanting more money or do they really need it. I know i dont ask for money unless its an extreme emergency, i dont even like takin money i dont think i have earned or dont think i deserve.
2006-10-08 16:08:06 · answer #6 · answered by Don A 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dump him/her
2006-10-08 16:14:02 · answer #7 · answered by christinadc2002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave, i have been there so many times and only found myself hurt and broke because i shared too much....
2006-10-08 16:09:02 · answer #8 · answered by it's a good day 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋