I met this guy at the dog park. Then after knowing him for like 3 months i went to san deigo. he wants to do the friends with benefits but i want a relationship.
2006-10-08 16:04:36 · 16 answers · asked by shell 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Always start your relationship as friends with any relationship you begin. My advice would be to you is that you become friends with benefits and don't get any feelings involved most females make mistakes of doing that and scare the guys away. Maybe cause he likes you but, is not ready for a relationship and does not want to hurt you inside. FACT: Most men are not ready to settle down until they are about 30 years old here in the U.S. I STRONGLY AGREE! He is just not ready for a relationship that's all! He is not looking to see you hurt at all!
2006-10-08 16:09:43 · answer #1 · answered by hahnleticia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't settle. If you want different things then it won't work. He's being up front with you and you should respect that. He could have told you that a relationship was an option but took the high road. Accept that you won't have a relationship and remain friends if you want.
2006-10-08 23:09:00 · answer #2 · answered by sleep2dream65 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Un uh girl, i was recently in that same situation..don't do it you'll only get attached and get hurt in the end. You deserve more than ust being a friend with benefits, find someone who is into you and wants to commit
2006-10-08 23:07:37 · answer #3 · answered by Miss Thang 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out of there...Been there done that (not the dog park thing) LOL but the being buddies with benefits doesn't work.....
2006-10-08 23:07:43 · answer #4 · answered by Mechelle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's his way of saying he isn't ready to commit. he likes being able to f u c k whoever he wants and not have to answer to someone. you won't change his mind, so move on if it's a relationship you're looking for. you'll just end up getting hurt in the end.
2006-10-08 23:07:27 · answer #5 · answered by cindos_69 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say to not do the whole friends with benefits... talk to him first about y hed rather have that inste of a relationship. dependingon answer, see if ur willing to accept it or not
2006-10-08 23:06:37 · answer #6 · answered by japanese blossom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want a relationship and he doesn't - he isn't the one for you. Keep looking until you both agree on the terms and type.
2006-10-08 23:06:36 · answer #7 · answered by iWorkonComputers 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get out now before you get seriously heart broken,friends with benefits works only if you both feel that way
2006-10-08 23:07:11 · answer #8 · answered by seth s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u want to date a guy who wants to do friends with benefits with u?
are u weird? are u strange?
do u have any kind of clue what kind of guy u are dating?
do u even want to be with a guy like that?
oh my gawd woman. whats wrong with u?
common, think about it.
either he wants to be in a relationship with u or not.
2006-10-08 23:07:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
he just wants to **** u...hm I wouldn't take up on the offer...ask him if he can just be ur freind w/ no benefits...if he agrees he might want something serious, if not, he just wanted sex. Guys will be guys.
2006-10-08 23:08:40 · answer #10 · answered by M.L.C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋