I like a guy at my college and he has a girlfriend and he was getting married. I say 'was' bc we both started to get to know each other a little bit better. I like him, he likes me and he's breaking it off with his girlfriend. Should I date him?
2006-10-08 15:59:29 · 11 answers · asked by Lucy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
So when should I call him? He said he'd call me l8r but it's been about 5 hours. I really would like to get some rest.
2006-10-08 16:09:08 · update #1
Yes.. however don't cheat! Make sure that he is off with the girl before you heat things up. . You can't control who or when you fall in love sometimes. Atleast he discovered this attraction for you BEFORE he was married. Have Fun!
2006-10-08 16:03:35 · answer #1 · answered by LJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is willing to throw his relationship away with his fiance' just like that, what makes you so great that he won't do the same to me. Your boyfriend or so called boyfriend is a jerk. I am a guy. I am married and a born again Christian now, but back in the day my friends and I pulled this same crap on women all the time. Let me be honest with you. Nine out of ten times there is nothing great or special about you that is going to make him be any more faithful to you, then he is to her. If you think there is then you are only fooling yourself. Sure, he is going to tell you crap like, "You are special." "You are so easy to talk to you." "You are a better lover, kisser, blah, blah, blah, blah,blah. It's just like when a married guy tells his mistress he is going to divorce his wife. If you date this guy you are going to get screwed in more ways than one. Remeber, what goes around always comes around. Find your own man. If he will crap on her, you can best believe he will wind up crapping on you as well. Peace and God bless.
2006-10-08 23:09:41 · answer #2 · answered by cave man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not immediately yet. You need to give him time to think of his options. Engagement is a big deal. If he broke up his engagement to be w/ someone else, he may do the same to you.
Watch "The Last Kiss". The movie is in the theater now, and it's similar to your situation. Good luck!
2006-10-08 23:04:23 · answer #3 · answered by erinlovestv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We all want to believe that we are so special that men will leave their wives/girlfriends for us as a one time only thing because they realize that we are soooo incredible. Unfortunately, people are creatures of habit and if he does it to her he will probably do it to you. It happened to my sister. Her former fiancee left his girlfriend for her, they dated, got engaged, then he left her for some woman he worked with. You should be cautious in this situation.
2006-10-08 23:05:11 · answer #4 · answered by sleep2dream65 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely, AFTER he breaks it off with his fiance. Not before! And make sure he really did break it off.
2006-10-08 23:05:23 · answer #5 · answered by tlkp05 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is he dumping her to go out with you? because if he is, then chances are he'll find another girl and do the same thing to you. this is your call, but I strongly advise you not to.
2006-10-08 23:02:46 · answer #6 · answered by cindos_69 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if hes dumping his finace to be with you I would hope you want to date him!
2006-10-08 23:02:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, but what if his fiancee is a bad girl and he has reasons for dumping??
2006-10-08 23:10:47 · answer #8 · answered by Mondschein! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, make sure he keeps his promise.
2006-10-08 23:04:01 · answer #9 · answered by OC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, if he can do tt to his fiancee, he can do tt to anybody else..
2006-10-08 23:03:31 · answer #10 · answered by band_craze4f 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋