how long did it last? what changes did you go through etc etc?
thanks:D
2006-10-08 15:56:41 · 10 answers · asked by DIANA 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
Post-partum depression is different for everyone who experiences it. Some people get over it quickly and for others it can drag on and on. If you don't treat it, it will only get worse. You should really discuss your symptoms with your doctor.
2006-10-08 15:58:59 · answer #1 · answered by Writer of Truth 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When my twins were born, the post pardum depression began in the 2nd month. It seems to still be with me. Not so much as it used to be.
Let's see, having twins is not very easy. Even though I prayed for my twins I never thought it would be this hard. I was living in a fantasy world thinking my in-laws would actually want to be here to help me without me calling them for help.
My whole family is from SoCal. That is where I grew up. I have lived in NorCal for 10 years now and have never been close to my inlaws at all. They are not really huggy huggy kissy kissy people. It is a good thing my dad and mom came up every 2 to 3 months to help me and my hubby feed our daughters. Their feeding schedule was every 2-3 hours and it was brutal.
So, anyway, after my twins were born I cried a lot and all I wanted to do was sleep, but could not because of their feeding schedule.
Now, I still have pent up resentment and I need to let it go for me, my hubby and my twins.
But now that my twins will be a year old next month, I am feeling a bit better and it is so much easier to take care of them. I have been taking care of them much better on my own during the daytime since they were 7 months old. Yes, it too me a loooonggg tiiimmmeee to finally get it together.
I really hope this has helped you...
P.S. If you are a Christian, I would also draw your strength from the Lord. He can help you through this too.
2006-10-08 23:07:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Post Pardum is very common and it varies on the degree of how much you are experiencing. I had it w/ all three of my children. I did not take medication w/ my first and it only got worse. My second child came along 12 months later and I would have to say that was the worst time for me. I think if I had of treated it to begin w/ it would not have been so bad the second time. They have different medications you can take that are not habit forming. Ask your doctor about it. Also, in case you are breast feeding, they have medications that are safe to where it will not pass through your milk. Call your doctor and let him know your symptoms. This is not something you want to wait around on. Trust me, I know! Best of luck and I promise, it will get better. :)
2006-10-08 23:05:43 · answer #3 · answered by Mandee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It lasted a few months. Mostly because I felt so unattractive because my body was a mess. I felt nasty with the leaky boobs, fat belly and stretch marks. Made it tons worse really. I was very depressed, a recluse, did not leave the house ever. Sad, lazy and felt completely worthless. Then I got tired of feeling that way and changed it.
To fix it. Get out and walk, exercise, eat right and take care of yourself physically. Do some yoga or pilates after 6 weeks (too soon and you may hurt yourself) You have to get out of the house and be active. I promise you it will help. Eat well and rest plenty.
2006-10-08 23:01:59 · answer #4 · answered by Thetruthbetold 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it was difficult.I didnot know what I was feeling when it hit me.I will feel it at night.I would just cry not knowing why I was crying.All I know I would be feeling bad.My lasted 3 days like clock work.Your post pardum made not last 3 days it made last longer.It all depend on your body.Keep your doctor inform so you can have help during this time.
2006-10-08 23:15:01 · answer #5 · answered by 40something 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just need to take a deep breath and to remember to be flexible. A new baby needs a lot of attention and care so you need to be flexible. Do not be afraid to ask for some help so that you can have a nap or have some time for you. This is important. Also, you and your husband will need to adjust your relationship when the baby arrives.
2006-10-08 23:22:53 · answer #6 · answered by Justme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely would recommend getting medical advice. Untreated it can linger and make life miserable, even affecting the bond you feel with your baby. Get help.
2006-10-08 23:05:17 · answer #7 · answered by Deborah C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to speek with your ob/gyn or mid wife as soon as soon as possible. it varies for every one and your doc would be the best place to start they can help you and direct yo to the resources you need to get better. as for me i didnt want to harm my children i just didnt care about myself. seek counceling and get on meds if needed it wasnt long and i weened myself off the meds. i couldnt be happier now knowing i got the help i need when i needed it.
2006-10-09 02:24:58 · answer #8 · answered by evilella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didnt have it so im sorry i cant help u
2006-10-08 23:19:45 · answer #9 · answered by Ain't my baby gorgeous 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
smoked some pot....
2006-10-08 23:52:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋