theres this girl who is really smart, nice and pretty and well "perfect" and i did/ do like her. we knew each other since 6th grade, didn't talk to each other until 9th grade sadly by then we went to different schools. well right now we are both 11th and well still talk a little. i have liked her ALOT like i cant explain how much i did. sadly i got rejected multiple times, yet she stills wants to be my friend. should i move on and give up?
2006-10-08 15:53:35 · 10 answers · asked by The King of Games 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be friends and move on. There are fish in the sea.
2006-10-08 15:55:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you should be asking if you should be friends with her because she seems to have made it clear that she is not interested in dating you. You shouldn't be friends with someone if you have ulterior motives. If you want to be her "friend" hoping she'll someday want more then you won't really be a friend at all. Also, it doesn't sound as though she's playing hard to get so you should just give up and move on and let it be her loss.
2006-10-08 22:58:42 · answer #2 · answered by sleep2dream65 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hate to say it but that might be a good idea. If youve been rejected a few times leave it alone for now. Just be her friend for awhile. Who knows, maybe in a few years she'll feel differently.
2006-10-08 22:56:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been in similar situations that you have described. In my experience, I would simply remain friends no matter what and move on. If she wants to date you, moving on will speed things up. There is one thing to keep in mind, DON'T HURRY! You have plenty of time to have relationships.
2006-10-08 23:00:12 · answer #4 · answered by Travis W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be friends! You should be friends before you can be anything else, and often friendship leads to some wonderful places. Anyway, would you rather have her in your life as a friend or not have her in your life at all?
2006-10-08 22:59:50 · answer #5 · answered by Rita 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it's not a matter of should you date her. Have you asked her why she doesn't want to be with you? Just show her you are the type of person she would be happy with.
2006-10-08 22:55:07 · answer #6 · answered by Liquid Snake 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She will want you once you move on. you know that whole "hes not available anymore" thing is so sexy. move on "kind of"
2006-10-08 22:59:17 · answer #7 · answered by cyndenalvarado 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should not ask her out trust me
2006-10-08 22:56:31 · answer #8 · answered by Sabrina G 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
NEVER GIVE UP
2006-10-08 22:59:52 · answer #9 · answered by Need help!!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore her and she will want you!!
2006-10-08 22:56:23 · answer #10 · answered by Alex 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋