My co-workers have told me that there's this divorced woman (early 40's, but looks YOUNGER), at the office, who seems to find me attractive.
This statement has also been claimed by the woman's closest female friend.
The problem is: She's OLDER than I am, but looks good.
However, when I used to see her, she used to act like there was nothing going on and greeted me as if she HAD to.
Now, everything’s changed. She is much MORE friendly, but now I am the one who acts TOTALLY CARELESS towards her. I like her and I have started to think a lot on her, but I just pretend I don’t care about, though curiousity is killing me!
HOWEVER, some of my other friends have warned me about her. They claimed she likes to go out with younger men and all that, so she can feel young. That was something that let me blasted, specially since I had started to feel something about her.
Now the question is: Does she like me? Or is she just a woman that only likes to get laid with younger men???
2006-10-08 15:52:00 · 15 answers · asked by R. H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The only way to find out is ask her. Talk to her, ask her out on a date. Age is just a number. It doesn't make any difference if there is a gap there. You might make a really good friend or something really great might come of it. All you can do is try.
2006-10-08 15:58:58 · answer #1 · answered by Cherry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its new age and younger men are more interesting to older women. It never hurts to find out by talking to her more, maybe have a cup of coffee and then a dinner. I am in the relationship with an older woman and I love it. We have so many things in common and although she had some doubt at first, we are still together after a good year.
40s are new twenties. Many older women know it and want to take as much of it as possible. Older men tend to be less adventurous, less energized, and many times not as interesting and spontaneous as women that age. I say give it a shot and see how things go. Live in a moment. However, a good advice for you – be careful dating a co-worker. If things get serious, it’s a bit hard with secrets and other issues. Good luck
2006-10-08 15:59:30 · answer #2 · answered by Iamverybroken 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the real problem here is that you're listening to too many people and their opinions about this woman....what you need to do is find out for yourself what she wants and why she wants it ok. i'm 44..look a lot younger and i prefer younger men, not because it makes me feel younger, but because i get along with them much better...sex with a younger guy is really no different then sex with someone my age...if two people get along, the sex is good no matter what their ages are ok
2006-10-08 16:10:37 · answer #3 · answered by raylie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, so like I'm a "young 41"...am told I look much younger. and let me tell you from experience....women in their 40's are comin' into their sexual PRIME! They're gettin' over early sexual hangups, have discovered how to multiple o, and perhaps OOOOOooooo thru manip of the G spot, etc. Thing is - they are like we were when in our teens! Yes, many (and I mean MANY) are seriously just very horny and lookin' for an outlet of expression.
So, do ya wanna help her? : )
2006-10-08 15:58:37 · answer #4 · answered by 2Horses 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hard to say for sure, but chances are good that a 40 year old woman who dates 20 year old men does not want to be reminded of her age.
I'm assuming you are not rich, famous, or more powerful in any sense than most 20 year olds. She probably likes you because you're 20, not because you're you.
2006-10-08 16:00:09 · answer #5 · answered by Computer Guy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a red hot combination! Older women and younger men can have tons of fun together. Sexually, their drive is similar. Give it a try. Just have fun with it.
2006-10-08 16:01:13 · answer #6 · answered by queenblafalot 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's a hot, sexy older woman who likes to get laid with younger men, and she likes you, I fail to see where you have a problem.
2006-10-08 15:55:54 · answer #7 · answered by Bastet's kitten 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this question can't be answered here. If you are interested in her, then you should ask her out and take it from there. However, if you are looking for more than she is or vice versa, that should be discussed between the two of you before anything get too involved.
2006-10-08 15:59:42 · answer #8 · answered by funlady6632@yahoo.com 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just spend some time with her and find out for yourself what she is like. this is the only way you are going to know. your friends could be totally wrong. she was probably hesitant at first because people will always say things like that.
2006-10-08 15:58:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she just wants to get laid by a younger man
2006-10-08 15:56:17 · answer #10 · answered by Jakele K 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋