Last night i was like ok we're going out soon and he was like no, i'm gonna go out with some guy friends. But the thing is, he doesnt have any guy friends cause i never seen him with any and he doesnt have any of them on his list on his cellphone when i looked through it. Could he be creeping around with one of the females that i saw on his cellphone list? Should i follow him one day secretly to see what he's doing? Would that improper etiquette to follow him?
2006-10-08 15:45:40 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
I looked at your questions. You're in a dead end relationship, and it's probably time to move on.
2006-10-08 15:49:55 · answer #1 · answered by WHITE TRASH ARMENIAN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a nobody and if he's acting weird like that get rid of him,he's creeping around cuz if he wasn't he wouldn't or shouldn't ditch his girlfriend for a bunch of stupid jerks.Just know you will be ok and you don't need him,god will send you a good man when he feel the time is right and I don't mean by going to look for one.I have seen your other questions and he's a loser I know you think you might love him but really it's lust.You will feel alot better when that pressure and stress is off your back.
2006-10-08 15:57:54 · answer #2 · answered by Sister Queen Mama 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
A relationship should be based on trust so if there's no trust and you're suspecting he may be with some other girl or he's giving you reason to believe it, then there may be a problem.
Before following him, I'd try to confront him and see what he says. Something as simple as, "how was the night out with the guys?" "Who'd you go with?" may provide you with the information you need.
2006-10-08 15:54:21 · answer #3 · answered by Chloe 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you do, and he is with a girl, just leave. Don't make a scene and the next time he calls you, tell him you saw him. He could tell you the truth. And anyone who does things like that are not worth having. You deserve better than that. It's his loss.
2006-10-08 16:16:32 · answer #4 · answered by mabell1025 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know exactly what he's trying to do. Maybe he's cheating on you with some other girl like you said. you should follow him to find out what's really happening. i have much faith that he's bored of being with you and starts getting interested in some other girl. LOL. you can find a whole lot better guy out there. Trust me.
2006-10-08 15:51:17 · answer #5 · answered by midian88 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Honey....... he's cheating on you!!! tell him that you'd like to meet his guy friends, after all.... you are his girlfriend aren't you? don't you think if he cared about you he'd want to introduce you to his friends? Then see what he does & how he acts, that ought to give you the right answer.... and whatever you do, dont make excuses for his responses & behavior or allow him to make you think your crazy & imagining things!!! He's an abusive looser.... sorry but I read your other question(s) ... like I was saying..... HE'S A LOOSER!!!!
food for thought....... its better to be single than to wish that you were....
2006-10-08 21:24:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you even be with someone you don't trust? If you need to go through his cell phone and you're thinking of following him, what kind of relationship do you really have? If he is cheating what will you do then, get pissed at the "female" and blame her.
Maybe you need to take stock of this relationship and why you're there.
2006-10-08 15:51:16 · answer #7 · answered by nquizzitiv 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You are in a abusive relationship. What stick with him. ? Time to move on.
There are plenty of guys right for you. Don't be with him for all the trouble in the world.
2006-10-08 16:48:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is creeping. Lose him. Why would you put up with someone you do not trust? Find a guy who treats you with respect.
2006-10-08 18:03:50 · answer #9 · answered by ValleyViolet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should follow him. Ask around and see if other people know. Is he just trying to "impress" you or something to say that he has guy friends? Aww, poor loser boy.
2006-10-08 15:49:44 · answer #10 · answered by Steve 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋