My father in law is dying of cancer. he is in his death bed and people keep asking.. How is you father in law? He only has like 1 mo. left. I DONT KNOW WHAT TO SAY. Help?
2006-10-08 15:31:56 · 9 answers · asked by LJ 2 in Health ➔ Diseases & Conditions ➔ Cancer
It's perfectly fine to say "he's very ill." If people pry, you can say as much or as little as you feel like. It's ok to say, "it's difficult to talk about" or "I don't know." If the people who ask are nice people you can ask them to pray for your father-in-law or ask them to send good thoughts if prayer isn't something you're comfortable with. Most people want an opportunity to do something when people are dying, so asking for prayers/good thoughts gives them a focus for their feelings.
I wish you peace during this difficult time.
2006-10-08 15:40:29 · answer #1 · answered by Yogini108 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Thank them for asking, and let them know how things are. Theyre just being considerate, thoughtful, and nice!
I'm sorry to hear about your father-in-law! :(
2006-10-08 22:38:15 · answer #2 · answered by Tweetalette 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe say "he's comfortable" or, "he seems peaceful, at least". Maybe "It's only a matter of time, but he is still communicating". those statements are truthful, yet succinct, short and to the point. I am sorry for your situation. God Bless.
2006-10-08 22:39:56 · answer #3 · answered by Becca 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just thank them for asking and being concerned and tell them the truth. They would rather know that then ask later on and feel bad for not knowing.
2006-10-08 22:34:33 · answer #4 · answered by cfoxwell101 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Tell them the truth they might want to see him before he passes.
Good luck and God Bless you and your family
2006-10-11 16:10:46 · answer #5 · answered by crumcake422 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell them the truth...he's dying.
2006-10-08 22:42:03 · answer #6 · answered by CJBig 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you tell them , he is dying , he has only about i month left , maybe you should just come and see him yourself before he passes. i know he would appreciate it..........
2006-10-08 23:25:45 · answer #7 · answered by sindi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just say.. well he is not doing to good ..you dont have to go into detail...
2006-10-09 12:07:12 · answer #8 · answered by purple 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"It's critical"
2006-10-08 22:38:26 · answer #9 · answered by dun_give_ a_ damn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋