Three months ago i reunited we my first love ,we both were available. I have kids and he is living the single life. In the beginning it was great and we started going out and he even gave me a promise ring. We made love 2 wks after meeting again. We rarely talk on the phone now and we IM each other at least once or twice a week. When i leave messages he never responds back and last time he called was to ask me out. I still love him and im not sure if i dont interest him as much as in the beginning. How do i know if he really want us to be together. Is it the fact that 3 months i ago i seperated and my situation is quite complicated now because im living with my parents. How do i know hes into me? Or is it me who should take the iniative in making changes in order to become more?
2006-10-08 15:30:59 · 9 answers · asked by melissa 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i guess you could talk to him. ask him if he is interested. but in my experience i would think he's using you for an easy ride and something to do, but maybe not. talk to him.
2006-10-08 15:34:31 · answer #1 · answered by simple1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is not responding to your messages, he probably is not too serious about getting closer to you. You have your children and your own well-being to manage. If he cares for you and wants to be with you, you will not have to run after him. He will take the initiative if he is worth your time. Oh, if you run into him again, don't make love. Just talk and see if you like what you hear. Best wishes.
2006-10-08 15:38:20 · answer #2 · answered by Jess4rsake 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I like a girl I sure as heck spend as much time as possible with her, talk on the phone as often as possible too. Once or twice a week just wouldn't do it, UNLESS I didn't care that much about her.
Get the picture???
It appears you care more about the situation then he does. Move on and find another.
2006-10-08 15:37:22 · answer #3 · answered by usaf.primebeef 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to meet with him and talk to him. If you can, meet up with some of his friends or family members and try to find out what kind of person he is now. If he doesn't want to talk to you, he could have just used you to have sex with you (that is what you mean by making love right?). Don't act needy and try to figure out if you still want to be with him by comparing and contrasting yourself to him. Also, be confident in the decisions you make and stick with them (this is very important once you decide what you are going to do).
2006-10-08 15:35:00 · answer #4 · answered by Liquid Snake 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi melissa,
I think you should consider your relation. I think that your guy just taking advantage of you. What I think is that he meet you just to release his desire towards you. What I meant is that when he in need he find you after that he forget about what had happen. My advice to you is that try to forget him cause your relationship will never come to any further. For now try to concentrate with your child and hopefully a nice guy will come to you. Trust me someone I will come to you one day that is more loving and caring for you. For now try to move on and forget about him.
2006-10-08 15:40:23 · answer #5 · answered by hafidz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always say ''never go back - only go forward'' if it was meant to be it would have worked out the first time , you'll only be dissallusioned.
2006-10-08 15:35:00 · answer #6 · answered by chandra 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not going anywhere. He just wanted you because he had'nt had you in a while. Cry and move on. It ended for a reason.
2006-10-08 15:35:12 · answer #7 · answered by truelynlove225 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time will only tell......Take your time, give him some space...don't push him too much.......because he might thing that it's just a rebound....You do need sometime yourself to adjust to your new life.........
you can leave him notes or email him from time to time to tell him how much you misss his kiss, lips etc....
2006-10-08 15:34:25 · answer #8 · answered by Valerie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have Faith , he will come back :)
2006-10-08 15:36:21 · answer #9 · answered by Tellie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋