First love yourself. Confidence and respect in ones self makes all the difference in how you carry yourself. I suspect you are appealing and probably better looking then you think. Stop looking at your imagined faults and trying to change them. Look at your good qualities and enhance them. Most people are attracted to self-confidence.
If you put your self down, people are rarely attracted to someone who hate themselves. You are valuable and anyone not recognizing that is not worth YOUR time.
2006-10-08 15:35:36
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answered by Einaj 5
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Ok sweety I'll tell you what worked for me...Go to Regis (a hair place) and get a hot hair cut...Go to Sally beauty supply and get some highlights and have your friend help you...Go to Dillard's and have the girl at the clinique counter show you how to correctly put on make-up...Exercise at least 30 minutes a day...20 lunges, squats, crunches, and jog...put yourself on a diet...its hard when you've been eating poorly for so long...If you want to look better you'll do it and loose 25 lbs like me. Drink 16 cups of water a day..if you're in college go see the free psychologist to work on your self esteem...Get a magazine and learn about the hot new trends..get you some new clothes (target has the cutest stuff) and rock on sister!!!
2006-10-08 15:36:35
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answered by Alyssa 2
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Hate to be cliche but, yup, get in shape. Cardio is more important, I think, but body tone and stuff helps too.
Rearrange your wardrobe. Women usually love shopping, so have fun with it. Try different styles, see what kind of reactions you get.
Finally, yup, personality counts. The most important thing is to decide WHY you want to be appealing. Do you want a hot guy? Do you want to have a selection of different types of men? What kind of men/people do you want to be appealing to? Do you just want more friends? Figure that out, and then figure out what you already have that would help you reach that goal (maybe you have good social skills already, maybe you're already friendly) and EXPLOIT THE HELL OUT OF IT. Use it use it, make it your forte. Then, figure out what your weaknesses are, and take small steps to improving them (maybe you're not good at first impressions). To learn about that, look for books on the subject or, even better, emulate or model people who ARE good at the things you want to be good at. You could watch movies or TV shows and really really notice how the characters you like act. Notice their body language, their voice, their tone, how they smile, things like that. Even better, if you have friends who have characteristics you think are appealing, watch and imitate them. Ask them how or why they are like that. Give it your best shot!
2006-10-08 15:35:36
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answered by JudasHero 5
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attitude is half the battle.... smiles, and good posture and that glow of self confidence... go to a beauty parlor that does make overs.... or to a big chain store that has the make over counter... get professional help on colors and styles.... dont over do it.... make a list of you good features, what you like about urself... and then the list of what you think needs a tad of work... go from there... but dont discount what God has given you... ALL ppl are beautiful !!!!!!!!!!!!!! God bless
2006-10-08 15:34:09
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answered by Annie 7
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Tell yourself you are already appealing and attractive. Stay away from people who make you feel otherwise. Do whatever makes you feel good.
2006-10-08 15:33:34
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answered by truelynlove225 2
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To make the outer-woman look better, start working on the inner-woman!
2006-10-08 15:31:22
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answered by Anonymous
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Get more confident... Guys love a gurl who loves herself
2006-10-08 15:31:28
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answered by Anonymous
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study who can best be someone you would like to be with for the merits of compatability look a profile assests developments of eharmony program
2006-10-08 15:38:04
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answered by bev 5
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plastic surgery
or if you think that's ekky and afraid something might go wrong,..
a dose of selfconfidence, contentment and self improvement should do the trick!
2006-10-08 15:31:55
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answered by Spidergurl 4
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Get in shape.
2006-10-08 15:30:36
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answered by master_der_man 6
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