why is it so hard for some of you to tell a girl you like them???
or to tell them what you feel for them??? or ask them out??
2006-10-08 15:18:17 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
but what i you know she likes you (some how you know) it's the same thing
2006-10-08 15:23:25 · update #1
im not trying to be rude or anything it's just that i was wondering because i like this gut and helikes me to but he just doens't tell me face to face
2006-10-08 15:25:41 · update #2
gut ... i mean guy
sorry for mispelled words
2006-10-08 15:29:16 · update #3
one word
rejection
2006-10-08 15:20:17 · answer #1 · answered by alphawolf38 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it's a sad thing, but some guys are afraid of being hurt by the women they are crushing on.
It only takes once for a good guy to be humiliated by a woman and he will be in a pool of self pity for decades.
If you think he likes you... He probably does..
If you like him... Let him know. It's just that simple.
I have never been nervous or shy around women, but a lot of my friends were. They always wanted to know how to act around women. It's a common occurrence.
You have to tell him out right. Hints DONT work!!!
Hope this helps
good luck
2006-10-08 22:22:24 · answer #2 · answered by USMCstingray 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I do. You have been looking in the wrong areas obviously. Were out here, you just have to look hard. Most guys don`t want to commit. They want to play the field. Maybe some guys think you are too hot for them, and think your out of their league, so they don`t ask you out. Some are a little shy maybe, I was when I was young. NOW, I`M A MONSTER. Good luck !
2006-10-08 22:30:04 · answer #3 · answered by bald eagle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off I don't think the girl wants to hear it. And if I was to say something like that to a girl she would tell all her friends how lame I am and they would not want to have anything to do with me either.
You make the first move.. Tell me how much you like me first. Then I can use to get laid and move on to the next foolish female.
Get the picture? It works like that for both sides. Not worth trying .. Normally turns out bad.
2006-10-08 22:21:46 · answer #4 · answered by Don K 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well as an avid observer of men, i find that most are not afraid or find it hard. the interest just hasnt taken a strong enough hold on them to make any moves. most men dont play games, they want you or they dont. sometimes they do sometimes they dont but you will always know. its up to you to be realistic and heed the signs. Example: a guy doesnt love you when he doesnt call for 2 wks. theres no way one can change that into something normal or excuse worthy.
2006-10-08 22:22:35 · answer #5 · answered by Tian 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, lets think of it this way...why it it so hard for GIRLS to tell GUYS how we feel or ask them out? Girls, just picture this guy you really like. Now consider asking him out. Would you? No. You wouldn't, for various reasons such as fear of rejection, embarrassment, etc. If girls are too nervous to make the first move how can we criticize guys when they don't either?
2006-10-08 22:26:51 · answer #6 · answered by heya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well. I'm shy and I won't tell a girl because the girls I like are popular, or one of my friends. I'm not sure about the others, but I won't tell because of ruining a friendship. The girls I like are also in my classes, so if I tell them we will always fell awkward. I hope that answers your questions.
2006-10-08 22:21:45 · answer #7 · answered by Amy's Man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guys that are like this are still just boys. A man has no problem telling a girl how he feels. That's what seperates the boys from the men!
2006-10-08 22:20:11 · answer #8 · answered by SatinDoll1976 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes but what are you going to do when the one you do care about is almost half your age and has a boyfriend. Sure I'd love to tell her how I feel, but how can I.
2006-10-08 22:31:11 · answer #9 · answered by Sentinel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's our way of self perservation, no guy wants some girl to perform open heart surgery on them unless, they are a qualified cardiolist !
2006-10-08 22:22:21 · answer #10 · answered by Jo Jo Gunn 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
SOME PEOPLE ARE JUST SHY AND FEAR OF BEING REJECTED. NOW IF YOU WANNA GET A CERTAIN GUY TO ASK YOU OUT YOU NEED TO GIVE HIM A LITTLE HINT ABOUT HOW YOU FEEL BOUT HIM. AS FOR TELLING YOU HOW HE FEELS YOU COULD TELL HIM THAT YOU LIKE HIM OR YOU THINK HE IS COOL OR SOMETHING LIKE THAT. OF YOU COULD JUST SAY HEY YOU WANNA COME TO MY PLACE TONIGHT.
2006-10-08 22:22:13 · answer #11 · answered by roy40372 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋