Does an ex-boyfriend still have feelings for me?

Question

Me and my ex-boyfriend were good friends through grade school. We got a long great and one day he asks me out. I accepted and we dated for two months, then something happened, he said that we should be better off as friends, but he never said why. He only said that it might work out later and that he had a lot of things going on. Four months later, he talks to me like we are still friends. He has a full conversation with me one day but he doesn't the next day. Is he trying to get me to miss him? After all he broke up with me. He talks to one of my best friends but she says that he doesn't mention me at all. What is going on here?

Answer 1

i think you are better off finding someone who loves you.
sometimes when you go from a friendship relationship to an imtimate one, things change. in one sense if he feels that it is better to remain friends, he might feel that if you broke up that things would never be the same and that he would lose you forever. not that it is a guarantee, but for some they feel that they are better off as friends than lovers

Answer 2

Gosh i always hate to deliever bad news cause i'm almost always so positive about everything but this sounds familiar...cept i was the one to break things off. However, we called it mutual. He hung around with other women after that. We said hi now and again. Sometimes i'll still miss him. The only guy i could talk to on the phone for five hours a night and still have something to say at school the next day. The first love is usually the hardest. But i try to remember the good things of back then and not how it felt to watch him walk around with other people. About two years ago i heard he had a gf and it stung a little. Moving on just takes time.
If he's not talking about you then don't bother with it. Thats my advice but the choice is yours. If you wanna know the truth just ask him how he feels about you. Be specific so that he can't get lost in the explination.
Men think differently then we do and sometimes its best to be as specific as possible.

Answer 3

Yeah, it sounds notably conventional. that's in basic terms like wanting to have the instructor who theory you would be a failure see you substitute into effectual. It does not inevitably mean which you rather p.c. your previous boyfriend returned, you in basic terms p.c. him to work out how plenty extra beneficial you're able to do than him. Do your modern-day boyfriend a want, nonetheless, and don't difficulty attempting to describe this to him. He would get the incorrect effect. as long as your concentrated in this guy, what you think of or want your ex feels is beside the point.

Answer 4

men don't run & tell other people about things they really care about (unless they are extremely open about EVERYTHING)

I think he really thinks u are a nice person & doesn't wanna lose touch with you. Continue 2 talk 2 him on the phone, but still keep busy. REALLY busy, that way he can try to fit into YOUR agenda! If he reallt misses u, he'll try HARDER!

GOOD LUCK!

Answer 5

hi babe i know the feeling i broke up with my b/f but he's done the opposite and went with my mate 2 days after we split and treat me like crap , the best way to find out if he still feels for you is show him your happy with someone else and if he wants you he'll come crawling back ! good luck x lee

Answer 6

he pro knows you still have feelings for him so he is playing games with you.i think he might be string in you along so that way he has you there if he still needs you.

Answer 7

my guess is that his feelings are at best ambivalent. best to forget about it. maybe he will have regret over his ambivalence maybe not. best to move on.

Answer 8

He's messing with you. Move on.

Answer 9

don't waste your time