theres a girl, meg, who lives 1000 miles away and i wont see her until another 4 years (im a freshman, but ive never been more sure about anything and i really love her) me and meg have been together for a year but broke up bc of her best friends view on net dating. when we broke up meg said we could date other people. we got in a fight bc i flirted with a girl i know and meg cried bc she said the thought of mee with another women breaks her heart. tyra goes to my school and i sort of have a crush on her. shes planing on asking me out tomorow and im not sure what to say. tyra is here but meg there. but i love meg so so much. i told meg i might say yes and she said it was ok. but i think shes lieing like she did when we broke up. i think shes just trying to be a friend. i cant move or anything im stuck withought meg for another 4 years. tyra looks better then meg, but i dont care bc i love her. if i had to choose on looks alone i would choose tyra. but megs..special. what should i do?
2006-10-08 15:15:07 · 21 answers · asked by dylanroldan99 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it depend wats in your heart, just some advice, personality is way more beautiful than looks, trust me, even if a gurls kinda ugly but shes nice and has a nice personality youll see that yull see her more good looking.
2006-10-08 15:19:11 · answer #1 · answered by Pau 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well its not the looks that matter, is it. Meg is obviously 100% better than the other girl. You have two paths you can choose from, 1- Forget about Meg and move on with Tyra 2- wait for Meg, save money to visit her (if possible) and continue long distance dating (4 years is definitely a test for love).
Good luck and let your heart feel what path way seems better.
If it's not meant to be, then its just not meant to be!!!
2006-10-08 15:49:14 · answer #2 · answered by jess girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Realistically, you will lose your feelings for Meg soon. She's far. She was probably the first girl you ever kissed and you fell in love. I think at your age, everyone feels in love. Meg is far and by the time 4 years rolls around, you would've forgotten about Meg. Tyra goes to school with you, lives in the same area as you, and you can build a real relationship with her. People change especially in your age group. You'll mature and eventually realize that it wasn't that serious. You shouldn't stop dating because you might be with someone in 4 years. Think about tomorrow not 4 years from now.
2006-10-08 15:25:14 · answer #3 · answered by Rica 82 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you love meg, but you have to move on with your life, especially if you will not see her for another 4 years. As long as you be true to her, you guys could always remain friends and if you really like tyra then go for it because she is right there with you and maybe when the schooling is all done, then you and meg could pick up from where you guys left off.
good luck!
2006-10-08 15:21:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to make a decision. Who do you want to go with and why. If you really love Meg like you say you do, don't go out with Tyra. Just say you're in a committed relationship and try to work things out with Meg. If you truly love Meg, the distance thing will work itself out. I've seen it done before.
If you wan to end the relationship with Meg, tell her. She at least deserves to know why you're not going out with her.
2006-10-08 15:18:45 · answer #5 · answered by 24th Princess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you probably don't want to hear this, but I'll say it anyway. Your a freshman in college? That should make you about 18/19 years old right? You have so much to learn and experience in life right now you really shouldn't tie yourself or someone else to a long distance relationship...especially for such a long period of time. There is so much out there for you to do and see and be...and you will do so much changing and growing in the next few years it's hard to explain or understand.
It you truly love this girl then grant her and yourself the time and chance to experience all that college has to offer you without the worry of having a serious commitmeant. If you are ment to be with her, you will be. But you never know what the future has in store for you or who may be put in your path. You talk of having a crush on this other girl....that's okay...see what happens and grant your friend the same....it may make you sad for a while, but in the long run you will understand...Best of luck...and try to have fun...
2006-10-08 15:27:05 · answer #6 · answered by Barbiq 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Neither of them, for this reason: Meg, it seems, is inaccessible and it seems she's playing games with you, anyway. You don't need that. And this other girl is a bad idea because you, my dear, are on the rebound and she would only get hurt. You, too. My advice to you: Forget about BOTH of them and get a hobby. You'll be better off.
2006-10-08 15:20:37 · answer #7 · answered by The Illegal Broccoli Farmer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go 4 meg
2006-10-08 15:17:23 · answer #8 · answered by Future Basketball Playa #3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Online relationships don't work if you can't see her for 4 more years. People change, circumstances change. Live life now. Most online "relationships" are based on a fantasy on how you think that person is, what it would be like to be with them, etc. It's pretty much make believe. Also, if it is "love", you wouldn't be asking this question.
2006-10-08 15:18:53 · answer #9 · answered by SatinDoll1976 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun you are young and so is she and life goes on. Do not put your life on hold because of your first true love. It hurts but if you do not see the next girl in your path you will miss alot. Move on cause there is such distance between you 2. You both will be fine. Time will heal all...
2006-10-08 15:18:59 · answer #10 · answered by Karen S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if its meg from family guy, go with tyra. kidding! ask meg again and tell her to say the truth. if she really doesn't care but you still think she's lying, wait until she finds someone, or just comes to your school to be with her forever. I dunno dude, your decision.
2006-10-08 15:19:32 · answer #11 · answered by the soccer guy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋