Will I ever find someone to love?

Question

Im basically asking the question because ive moved alot in my life(over 15 times easy). Now i have no friends and things are getting really lonely. I really never have anything to look forward to anymore except going home. I am going to try to meet people but i feel ive been screwed out of a chance because most people meet there friends (and girlfriends) in high school. Anyway the bulk of it is am i always going to be alone?

Thanks for all your help... I ll try to find some stuff to do .i think its just that i feel weird showing up to places by myself. but i dont have a choice :) Oh by the way im 20 and my parents moved me around alot because we were poor and they were alwys trying to find a cheaper place to live. What imeant by the whole moving thing is i don't think i ever got the chance to be social. and when you move alot making friends seemed pointless after a while.

Answer 1

if you have to ask then yes you will always be alone.

Answer 2

You can't basically say that u will be alone forever. I never thought that I would have a boyfriend because I wasn't classified as beautiful, but I met someone that shared the same interests as me and I met him through a friend. You should do something that you love, like join a school club, then go from there. If someone sees you there, they know that you have the same interests as they do and they might just ask u what interests you. U will finally have some friends and hopefully have a girlfriend, someone that you can share your interests with. If you don't have a girlfriend right away, then time will come!!

Answer 3

How old are you? Why did you move so much? I'm 17. And since my dad is in the Navy we moved about every two years or so. After a while it just got harder to develop attachments to people and places. Right as I made some really good friends my dad got orders to some place else. Anyways. I sypathize. It really does suck having to move a lot. Being alone is not judged by how many times you have moved, but by your ability, or lack thereof to open up to people again. You have to trust that there is good in people. Get involved. Good luck!!

Answer 4

Chin up soldier. I moved alot in my earlier years too. Yeah it can get lonely, but believe me it will get better. No matter how rough or down you get now, there is always something better lurking just around the corner. I've had enough ups and downs to know what I'm talking about. In the meantime, increase your chances by getting active and doing things outside the house. Take up some lessons, join a community event, etc. There are alot of options out there.

Answer 5

Get off the net and go out and meet some people. You seem like you might be a little depressed and you need to get past that right now. There must be something where you live that can offer you a chance to make friends.

Answer 6

No you are not! ... do you work some place??....somewhere that you go??....you could find a friend. Enroll yourself for some yoga...lots of nice people there.

I have never had many friends for the same reason as yours....but eventually you do find them.....just get active and go to places where there are people.

I'll pray for you today and hope you find many friends! =o)

Answer 7

I think if you put your mind to something, you can accomplish anything. Try to think positive instead of negative. For example, instead of thinking that moving has prevented you from meeting people, think about what it has opened up to you, ie, new experiences.
I wish you the best of luck

Answer 8

Yes you will find someone to love, and it will happen when you least expect it! Don't try to hard, it will happen. :)