I had really begun to like this guy....I met him playing music, and he made me weak in the knees from the start. He acted a little nuts over me, too. I got up the guts to ask him to lunch the first time we played together; he hesitated, but he said "yes." We had a great time, but soon after, my self-consciousness getting back to the violin overwhlmed me, and it fell flat. Later, I started flirting with him and he looked terrified. Then, I discovered he has a girlfriend (but he has been keeping this from me...still). He also went through a long time of not wanting to be committed even to playing, but then, he wanted to. Now we play together weekly, and he quit another organization to do it and make time for it. He's a better musician than me. Lately, his flirting with me and signals have gotten sharper. I thought maybe he's broken with his girlfriend, but saw him at a concert yesterday with a girl there holding hands, so I know where things stand. But does he like me?
2006-10-08 15:04:45 · 10 answers · asked by calliope 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hmmm.. I think he is treating you as one of his close friends. At this point of time I myself cannot tell if he likes you or not..
But I can say he is getting closer to you. Flirting around with girls while having a girlfriend is one way of saying, Hey even though I am attached.. you can be my close or best friend still...
Just be yourself and continue your normal routines, don't just give yourself away and say you like him or anything..
Who knows he can be your next best friend...
Cheers!
2006-10-08 15:09:37 · answer #1 · answered by THE ONE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might only like you as a friend. Some guys are just nuts when it comes to finding someone attractive. Be open and honest about the whole thing and say that u want to be friends with him because he shares the same interests as you do. Then see how it goes from there!!!! Trust me, you will do fine with it!!!
2006-10-08 15:08:08 · answer #2 · answered by To Remain Anonymous 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds from my point of veiw that he maybe quiet overwhelmed that someone else is interested in him rather then his girlfriend. So i'd say back off a bit without that sounding harsh and sit back and see where it all leads. He may feel a strong connection between the both of you. Who knows.
2006-10-08 15:18:06 · answer #3 · answered by Brookeo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is just flirting, men love flirting , dont fall for that, look the evidence is staring at you in the eye,if it were a snake you could have been poisoned by now, he is a player, he likes you but not really likes you likes you that he will give up his girl, or his flirting ways, one thing is for sure, he is playing, it is not love, what you had was fun but it really has no basis and foundation to continue, dont let him get to you like that , dont let him fool you you are smarter that n that, he is so undecided,i dont want an undecided man for myself, too immature, let him grow up!
2006-10-08 15:09:43 · answer #4 · answered by haringmarumo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes he does. Probably keep you on the back burner til things go wrong with his main squeeze.
2006-10-08 15:19:01 · answer #5 · answered by Funnel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no he just want to have a cake and eat it in two so stay away cos at the end you will just get hurt trust me i know, the hard way
2006-10-08 15:09:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't matter if he likes you, he is taken. Tell him you are interested in him if he ever leaves his girlfriend. He will respect that and you won't look bad.
2006-10-08 15:07:52 · answer #7 · answered by shakopcool 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, let it play out. u sound like you're doing things right.
2006-10-08 15:08:06 · answer #8 · answered by zocko 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he probably does but he doesn't want to break up with his girlfriend
2006-10-08 15:08:08 · answer #9 · answered by americaneagle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is playing with you. unless you don't care. you should stop
2006-10-08 15:08:07 · answer #10 · answered by j y 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋