someone asked me this today. I couldn't think of an answer. Not to brag, but I am hardly undatable. I'm young, thin, blonde, pretty, smart and nice. I am kind of shy, but that doesn't explain why I never get asked out! I really want to meet someone. any advice?
2006-10-08 15:01:45 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I presume it is your body language. When I was younger girls think I was a snub. Those who liked me had to find ways to engage me and that takes nerve.
Find where smart guys hang out, and show yourself there once in a while. It is possible the guys within your circle are intimidated by you... The real smart guys won't.
2006-10-08 15:28:26 · answer #1 · answered by McDreamy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you may have to do the asking. Also, get over being shy. When you are shy, there is no eye contact. Without eye contact, it is hard for males to wonder if they should make the next move.
You will remain single "pretty or not" if you don't take the time to make some changes in your life. As Dr. Phil would say "Is what your doing working for you?"
2006-10-08 22:06:12 · answer #2 · answered by Sunflower 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be your self... you sound like a great girl but you don't say what
you want to say or want Don't beat around the bush , just do what your feelings say don't wait for the guy to ask you, ask the guy its a change about you'll get great response from it.
Up in with both feet
2006-10-08 22:13:46 · answer #3 · answered by Bry 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Act as if you are the best thing sense sliced bread and as if you don't have a care in the world. Most guys are attracted to something that they can't have. Good Luck
2006-10-08 22:08:33 · answer #4 · answered by Cody S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be happy with your self as you are nature will run its course when the right man comes along you will know. I would not change a thing you are who you are. Just keep that big smile going that's a big attention getter to me.
2006-10-08 22:14:10 · answer #5 · answered by canuticklemepink 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go out of your element and try to talk to different groups of people it may feel weird but im doing it and it is helping little by little and im finding new people that i have never seen before can i get your emaill you sound F.I.N.E
2006-10-08 22:15:59 · answer #6 · answered by Arrow 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks like we both have things in common. If you really keen to meet someone then let's start to get to know each other... I would love to share anythign with you... pls feel free to write to me offline at just_4_frenz.
Hope to hear from you soon.
Take care.
2006-10-08 22:09:09 · answer #7 · answered by just_4_frenz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must be difficult to approach, Only a fool would climb a mountian that is thought to be unclimbable
2006-10-08 22:16:57 · answer #8 · answered by usamedic420 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did u try asking someone to go out?
2006-10-08 22:07:29 · answer #9 · answered by bigpumpdaddy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
become more outgoing go places meet people be more socialable thats all i can think of
2006-10-08 22:05:04 · answer #10 · answered by Future Basketball Playa #3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋