theres a girl (call her meg) who lives 4 states or so away. i am completly in love with her and she loves me. we are not together bc of her best friends opinion on internet dating. we recently got in a fight bc i flirted with a girl i know and she started crying. we made up and its been great since. she said we should date other ppl when we broke up and i chased after a girl at my school (tyra) she finally is coming around and might ask me out VERY soon and im not sure whether to say yes or no. i love meg, but shes so far away and she also said to go with other ppl. but the time we got in a fight she said that that was a lie she said as a friend and the thought of me with another girl made her heart break. i love meg, but i wont be with her for almost 4 years. should i date tyra for a little and not talk about it a lot, say no to tyra and stick with meg,go with tyra and never let meg know,or something else? PLEASE HELP!!!! (tyra looks slightly better then meg, but it dosent bother me)
2006-10-08 14:50:49 · 11 answers · asked by dylanroldan99 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should follow your heart, my boy. It seems you're in love with Meg. Far today...near tomorror. You may regret a too hasty decision. You must try to stay faithful to the young lady you love: she might tell you to stop seeking her, but it might be because she wants to protect you from suffering. Even if it isn't the case stay faithful to her: you love her.
Follow this advice my good friend. Not doing so might even hurt Tyra later.
2006-10-08 15:01:49 · answer #1 · answered by ana 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all... internet dating is good if you can handle it well..
Let me give you some solutions to your problem first:
If you have not told Tyra you liked her then I must say you can be her best friend and buddy. Go back to Meg and chase after the love of your life.
However if you want to date Tyra and not let Meg knows, this is really up to you cause your inner self might not be comfortable with it.. and everything might screw up.
Talk to Meg, ask Meg if she have dated before, is it really wise to have her first relationship via the net? If it is, trust her and go on with it. Mean while just be best friends with Tyra... be there for her, of course not to an extend where you end up dating her.
Always think of a win win solution, I do not know what is your current situation but I hope the solutions will help..
If you need more answers, you can just msg me.. or wait for others to answer ^^
Cheers!
2006-10-08 14:59:08 · answer #2 · answered by THE ONE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not date Tyra? She's there, Meg isn't, simple as that. And if you do date Tyra, why even bring up Meg? It's none of her business, and she has nothing to do with the relationship.
2006-10-08 15:07:44 · answer #3 · answered by JudasHero 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
long distance relationships are really hard...why wait 4 years?...must be something important going on in ur life like school etc..if thats the case the best thing to do is try it with tyra if you feel you are comfortable with it, explain to meg that the long distance thing isnt working out right now for the both of you and 4 years is a long time to wait to be with someone..if she cares about you like she says she does she will understand.
good luck
2006-10-08 14:59:25 · answer #4 · answered by B* 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u believes that u really loves meg,than dont flirt with anyone u know if u dont want any consequences to be happened....
but if u dare to flirt with other ppl n stills loves meg,then its up to u to do it......the matter now is what do u want n what u dont....
but here boy,im agirl n i have a boyfriend which i known also from an internet dating....i know i wont be able to see him frequently bc the distance constraint...its seems that im okay if he had another girl to be hanging out with but not really falls with...if u trust urself to be loyal to meg even if u are hanging out with tyra.....,then go on...tell the truth to meg that u have this one girl that u r comfortable to hanging out with..but convinced meg that u just loves her and no one else...im pretty sure that she will accept it...but in return,,u also have to accept if she had other boy that she is cmfortable to be with...okay......
luck......!!
2006-10-08 15:02:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with your gut man! If you feel you should be with Meg stay with her. It will be rough trust me I'm in the army I know how you feel with long distance relationships. I've had a few long distance relationships some work out some don't. Take some time wiegh the pros and cons and you'll figure out who to be with. Hope this helps
2006-10-08 14:58:44 · answer #6 · answered by bruce w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly, how old are you??
If youre a freshman in high achool, then dont waste your time in dating and ****. If youre in grade10, 11 or 12 then date tyra and get to know her, as long as you dont start liking her a lot. If youre in middle school then GOD HELP YOU.
2006-10-08 14:53:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u shuld date more girls, and kiss thew most u can, other way u won't be able to determine if she was the real one, if so, the time will set u toghether again
2006-10-08 14:55:52 · answer #8 · answered by eduardogomeznajera 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes you have to go with what your heart tells you instead of your mind.
2006-10-08 14:53:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
right now...at this very moment...there is a dick in your "girlfriend's" mouth...
move on...get a life and a woman near you...
long distance doesn't work....
2006-10-08 15:02:44 · answer #10 · answered by alphawolf38 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋