I would like a normal bachelor party but i think my friend is going to feel odd trying to set something up like that. should I assign that duty to another one of my grooms men
2006-10-08 14:50:22 · 11 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Honestly there is no "normal" for bachelor parties. There are so many variations you might be surprised.
I suggest talking to your Honor Attendant first and see what her feelings are. She might be completely comfortable planning a testosterone-based Bachelor Party. On the other hand she might be very uncomfortable planning ANY type of bachelor party. If that is the case she will be glad to let you have another groomsman plan it. If you trust her and like her enough to be your honor attendant you should be able to talk with her frankly to see what her views are... you may be surprised the ideas she could come up with!
2006-10-08 15:36:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a female best man (for my bro), I am so excited to be planning a bachelor party. I have no qualms about calling to set up a stripper for him or taking him to a gentlemen's club. I have even asked my bf to help me plan it. It is actually quite fun. It lets me get an inside view of how the male mind really works.
If she feels odd, I would ask her if she has someone to help her or if she would like you to appoint someone else for the job. This will let her know that you want her to do it if she feels comfortable and that you are not trying to take her duties away. If she is uncomfortable, appoint someone else. You might be surprised that she is ok with it and has reinforcements to help her. I even asked a couple of my guy friends what they would like at a bachelor party. You would be surprised how resourceful women are when faced with a new challenge.
I hope she does it. It is a blast! :) Good Luck!
2006-10-08 15:39:13 · answer #2 · answered by hiya314 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-27 01:47:28 · answer #3 · answered by roever 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey i am a female and i would love to plan a bachelor party. i am into the tittie bars and stuff like that so i think i would plan a great party. ask her what she has in mind and also give her some of your ideas for a night of fun.
2006-10-09 08:22:18 · answer #4 · answered by atthean 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her kind of what you want, and ask if she would feel comfortable doing it. Tell her you really don't want her to feel awkward, and you can give the job to another groomsman if she would prefer. If she says she wants to do it, let her. Also, be sure she knows that you want her there! She'll tell you if she wouldn't feel comfortable going, but as your Best Woman (or whatever you are calling her), she should feel included in this.
2006-10-08 17:04:51 · answer #5 · answered by Esma 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, define normal.
Sorry, but you should have thought of this before you picked her. She's the best "man" . You trusted her with this job.
Whatever she decides will be great.
You're getting married for crying out loud! Can we focus on that?
Priorities, man, priorities!
2006-10-08 15:37:42 · answer #6 · answered by uhm 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your "best man" may be offended if you totally block her out of the bachelor party... I would suggest that you have them all plan it together but put one of the guys as the lead planner so they can all contribute their ideas...
2006-10-08 14:57:20 · answer #7 · answered by smiley_140 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ask her how she feels before you have someone else plan everything. Who knows, she could have the greatest thing planned and you have no idea about it!
Good luck!
2006-10-08 15:19:50 · answer #8 · answered by Mrs. D 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if she is important enough to you for you to choose her as "best man: then why the hesitancy in this matter???
surely you know each other well enough for her to realise what type of party would appeal to you
what is *normal* to one person is not necessarily so to another
2006-10-09 16:57:19 · answer #9 · answered by fairypelican 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She shouldn't feel odd planning it. Have her get together with the groomsmen and plan it together.
2006-10-09 04:11:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋