When i try talking to girls at school or anywhere, i have trouble knowing if they want to keep talking to me.
2006-10-08 14:45:08 · 12 answers · asked by ernie_casarez 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Us ladies are masters of subtlety, so you have to make sure you're aware of our every gesture, word, and move we throw your way. Always remember that attentiveness is key.
Watch out for the following tells>>>
She keeps glancing over
She laughs at your jokes
She goes out of her way to get you to notice her
She smiles at you
She plays with her hair
She touches you (usually on the arm or hand)
She initiates the conversation
She asks if you like certain activities
She pays you a compliment
She makes sexual comments (if you're lucky *lol*)
Since some of the above signals could just be gestures of friendliness on a woman's part, you should count a minimum of four before you conclude that she is, indeed, interested or flirting with you. If she commits five or more, you're good to go ; D
2006-10-08 14:54:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Believe me, most girls just want to talk period so if you are wise you would learn how to be a good listener. Try to slip in a few phrases that will keep her gabbing like, do you have any pets or have your tried sushi? She will usually have comments and you can build on that. It is important to listen to her answere in order to prepare your next answer, be sensitive, smart, and attentive and I'm sure you will find lots of things to converse about. If she likes you and what your are saying she will let you know.
2006-10-08 14:54:14 · answer #2 · answered by Sheila D 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I'll tell you this if you are only interested in a female to see of they like you then why even talk to any of them,try to start a serious question sometime and if they get into talking to you then maybe you will be able to find someone that liks you because who you are in time you will knopw what I mean.
2006-10-08 14:50:22 · answer #3 · answered by northphillibabi67 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, I just had to say something because saying "Ladies Only"...is the best way to get a guy to answer. You can usually tell if a girl doesn't want to talk because they will answer with only yes, or no replies and will not elaborate, or ask you questions.
2006-10-08 14:48:00 · answer #4 · answered by bigbadwolf 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you have to question it, they probably don't really want to talk to you, lol. If a girl is interested, she'll make eye contact with you and make an effort to carry the conversation. Actually, that pretty much goes for both sexes... if they don't want to talk to you, they flatline the convo. If she's romantically interested, she'll likely giggle, twirl her hair, smile a lot... etc. Good luck!!
2006-10-08 14:50:11 · answer #5 · answered by deepwaters05 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ummm.. To answer your question no. Most girls will NEVER show definite signs that they like a guy, let alone actually tell a guy that we like him. Its too easy to get hurt that way. WAAAY too easy.
Rejection hurts..
2006-10-08 15:55:31 · answer #6 · answered by mlove1307 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont try to hard it always shows. Talk about them that always works us girls love to talk especially about ourselves.
2006-10-08 14:48:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well its easy if they keep on talkin and telling u stuff then yeah, if u just ask her questions and she only answers them then no...try 2 make her laugh if u feel she doesnt wanna keep talking
2006-10-08 14:47:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if they smile a lot and dont cut off the conversation, they want to keep talking!
2006-10-08 14:46:54 · answer #9 · answered by Elle 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
all of us are different. you have to go with you gut on this, or ask her friends. me personally i show it early on.
2006-10-08 14:47:53 · answer #10 · answered by Tian 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋