i not popular but i have friends i have blonde hair and blue eyes but i don't think i'm pretty and turn down all the guys that ask me out because i don't think thay are serious and i don't have a bright past so i don't like to be teased.What should i do?
2006-10-08 14:35:04 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all, quit putting yourself down.. I don't think you are even ready for a serious relationship.commitment yet.. Sorry if it sounded harsh but it really bothers me when people started asking such issues.. One cannot get into a relationship if you lack self-confidence.. How will you tend to have other like you if you don't even like yourself? Stand up and be proud for who you are!
Secondly, being hurt is part of being in a relationship.. It's a part one have to feel to become stronger.. So don't be afraid to trust, be hurt.. All you have to do is learn from that mistake is stand up once more.. If guys wanted to ask you out, it means they are interested in you.. Why not go out with those whom you feel comfortable with? Learn to trust people..
If there are instances they tend to tease you, so what? I'm a wee bit chubby and people (even my BF) tend to tease my but I just laugh at it and even go along with their jokes.. Just be a sport and laugh with them.. What's wrong with a bit of teasing? Learn to live life to the fullest and learn from every mistakes you make.. Stand up and be proud of yourself! Remeber, you are unique and what you have is purely your own and others don't have it.. Be happy and merry!
2006-10-08 14:42:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be more confident! Just because some other guy screwed you over ... doesn't mean that all guys are the same! You should give some of the guys that ask you out a chance. Just be cautious! Don't get serious about them until you know where you stand in the relationship with them! Good luck
2006-10-08 21:38:59 · answer #2 · answered by cutie447_99 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd really like to believe you are being serious. Saying that, I shall answer you. Gain self esteem. Take a look around at all the people around you. You are as good as all of them. Looks have nothing to do with anything here. Self confidence goes a long way. At one point things might look like they won't get better, but that just means they will get better. Always assume you've reached an all time low, so there is always room for things to get better.
2006-10-08 21:39:06 · answer #3 · answered by Mish B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is some one for everyone. stop being so down on ur self
if your past is not so perfect, then u can redeem yourself. let everyone know that u dont do those things anymore and that u are a changed woman. dont put yourself out there like again. when u do that, some men will see u as easy and half of them will only look at u as that
2006-10-08 21:38:55 · answer #4 · answered by good4u06@verizon.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if they are askign you out then they proboly think you are attractive. go out with them and get to know them. dont be so judgemental unless they are a total ****head or something. some guys just get nervice when they're around a pretty girl and dont know how to act. whats in the past is behind you. i would know, my past has been a flipin park walk through hell. givew them and YOURSELF a chance and try to stay possitive, everynight someone falls asleep thinkin of you, its a plain fact. if they fall asleep thinkin of you then they most definetly care or in some cases think your attractive. have a good life =)
2006-10-08 21:43:12 · answer #5 · answered by dylanroldan99 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop being so hard on yourself and forget about the past. These guys are sincere .. why would they waste their time asking you if they didn't like you ?? Go ahead and go out with one .. have some fun ! Good Luck! :)
2006-10-08 21:37:58 · answer #6 · answered by tysavage2001 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
relax an go out with one just don't fall in love till u check out all the guys an keep your legs closed think positive always your better looking than u think or they wouldn't ask in the first place. being positive is the key
2006-10-08 21:43:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would hang out with my friends and work on areas which I feel will help me feel better about myself. Until then I wouldn't date anyone. I would just continue to improve the feelings within. I don't feel that you can bring much to a relationship if you don't love yourself first.
2006-10-08 21:42:20 · answer #8 · answered by inhizmightyhandz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First try checking your question for grammatical correctness. Seriously, next time a guy asks you out, just say yes. If they are joking then you have "called their bluff", but if they are serious then I doubt that you will regret it.
2006-10-08 21:43:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to let the past go. And you need to look in the mirrow again. why would you not think your pretty? look in your heart and see your beauty. You have to live your life and stop looking back. the hurt is gone and you have a secar deal with it. life goes on. live a little.
2006-10-08 21:42:45 · answer #10 · answered by Lourdes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋