Dont like/love enough to make their wives or girlfriends.
I know a guy who says he married a lady for a green card. he does not love or live with her. the divorce will soon come the 2 yrs is up and hes got his card.
the thing is he used to have sex with her. and after a while she said she loved him and wanted their marriage to be real and have kids. he said he did not want her like that.
Why was he sleeping with her, if he did not plan on having a real marriage with her? If he does not like her even, if the marriage was a business transaction. WHY WAS HE FU*KING her?
I dont understand why men do this. Its like: "I dont like or love you, but I do like and love having sex with you.I will never be your man however."
Why dont they just find someone they actually like and have sex with them. It would cut down on all the women who feel liek theyve been used.
2006-10-08 14:31:24 · 23 answers · asked by Tian 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
simple they want to have sex,they need to relief them self.and its medically said a guy needs to have sex or masturbate for health reasons.
2006-10-08 14:34:05 · answer #1 · answered by maximum r 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
First of all I have known guys that have had SEX with their sisters,mothers,dogs.cows.......in other words, a man does not even have to know a chicks name to do "IT.' Soooooo a contract to a guy is"how often can we have SEX"? No other rules apply.!! See, you are trying to use logic...".won't work here". A male only lives to get LAID,and IF a lady is very lucky love will be included.As far as being someones MAN,even marriage will not keep a mans pants up,when he is away from his wife. Welcome to being a female that is thinking with he heart instead of her head. squirlyshirley1
2006-10-08 14:56:01 · answer #2 · answered by squirlyShirley1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys walk through the door of opportunity:
Some women conduct themselves in a way, that they are bound to be used.
Some women have low self-esteem.
Some women are using the men just as much as the men are using them!
Some women need an anchor baby.
2006-10-08 14:37:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not everyone feels like they have to be in love with someone to have sex with each other, maybe he was attracted to her, they had GREAT sex, then he got to know her, and didn't really like her so much after all,and his mind was still on the GREAT sex! Guys aren't the only ones that do that.....if you're having great sex, why complicate it?
2006-10-08 14:42:37 · answer #4 · answered by melanie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually the guys who do, do so, so they won't have any emotional attachment later.. basically to get his kicks...
This guy sounded like he had a plan for the card... And either used the sex for relief or to make sure he would get his green card...
2006-10-08 14:42:13 · answer #5 · answered by gearbox 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think all guys are like that. I think as you mature, you find that sex with someone you don't care about is just plain empty. Maybe it takes some people longer learn that lesson, but I think we all do in the end. If he is just "doing" it with her...granted she is getting more hurt...but he is not out of it scott free either.
2006-10-08 14:40:41 · answer #6 · answered by Sleepless in Seattle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a selfish motive. Guys DEFINITELY take advantage of the almost inevitable emotional attatchment that women will experience. Women just tend to be very oblivious to a man's very selfish motive.
2006-10-08 14:36:32 · answer #7 · answered by Mish B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Males have sex with who is ready and willing. His wife just happens to be the one. Since he has to relieve himself then she is the one to relieve this pressure on. When the right person comes along he would have perfected his bedroom skills and he will know how to satisfy the right one since he had practise.
2006-10-08 14:42:32 · answer #8 · answered by Still_21_nheart 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've got news for you, women do that too, not just men. And sex and love are two VERY different things.
2006-10-08 14:35:45 · answer #9 · answered by Michelle 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because they love sex! Men do not have to love who they are doing as long as they love what they are doing.
2006-10-08 14:35:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I say for the exercise and its fun except if someone is getting hurt of course, be safe and have fun **** the bullshit. That's straight from the HOrses mouth LOL
2015-05-21 07:34:00 · answer #11 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋