well theres this girl i met, and we've been getting along well. Shes attractive and has a great personality. After getting to know her better, i told her she was very pretty and she took it very well. Well, recently she's been acting werid toward me and started talking to my friend more and walking with him more. From past conversations, i know she doesnt like him (She said he doesnt have the greatest personality or is very mature). She hasnt been talking to me much, and when i do talk to her online, she only responds. Im pretty confused at this sudden turn of events especially when im pretty sure i didnt do anything wrong. What should i do? Keep my distance for a while, or should I ask her whats the reason for her recent actions? I haven't been clingy or obsessive either so it makes things more confusing.
2006-10-08 14:28:59 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its all probably cause u said she was pretty.she probably likes u and is shy after u told her she pretty or she doesn't like u and thinks u want to be more than friends so she stays away to spare u're feelings
2006-10-08 14:32:21 · answer #1 · answered by maximum r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! I'd problably say she likes you 2. Even though she dosen't talk to you and all AND she walks with that boy I'd say she is trying to make u jelious! But she can't make you jelious because you said it your self, she dosen't even like your friend! She problably wants you to say something. The only time girls do that is when they want a boy to do something about it. You should talk to her and even though she talks to your friend just butt in! Who says you can't butt in! Thats right NOBODY! So just walk with them and butt in on conversations. Its ether that are your girlfriend is going down the drain.
Basicly its not you its HER! So don't take it out on your self! Girls are forever doing that! So...if you haven't been "clingy or obsessive" she problably needs space. Give it a day or 2. She will come around. If you have a dance or something then ask her 2 go with you! I'm sure she'd say yes! So good luck!!
2006-10-08 21:41:23 · answer #2 · answered by afi.girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always go for what you want. For your message I see that maybe she does like you and know that it is in the open she doesnt know how to act. Take the action as being the man. Get to it.
2006-10-08 21:32:44 · answer #3 · answered by Lewis M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's prob. trying to get more info on you through him. Most likely she's just playing hard-to-get, and I'd say it's working. Keep paying attention to her (the whole point of playing hard-to-get is to get attention, because guys always want what they can't have), but if she gets even more standoffish then leave her alone, because maybe her feelings for you changed. Good luck!
2006-10-08 21:34:02 · answer #4 · answered by acct4em 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she's one of those girls who once she thinks you like her, there is no more challenge, Since you told her she was pretty, she probably thinks your hooked and has moved on to the next challenge. She's most likely bad news and if you ignore her she'll probably come back around - hopefully you've moved on by then.
2006-10-08 21:33:05 · answer #5 · answered by sunshine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes people get confused about their feelings. They try to pretend that nothing is going on, or distance themselves from people. Tell the girl that you'll be there to listen if she wants to talk to you, but don't force the issue.
2006-10-08 21:32:34 · answer #6 · answered by Blue Jean 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to make your long story very short: do not give much or more importance than what is needed. in this specific case "no importance or not important" is the rule. let time pass by -- it corrects by itself any anomalies, if not corrected by then -- yes, then move in. In your specific case I will easily give a good 12 months/1 year to let things clear or cool. good luck.
2006-10-08 21:34:20 · answer #7 · answered by s t 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has probably been hurt in the past, and is afraid to get close to another guy, if she likes you, she'll come up to you, just back off and let nature take it course, and if it's meant to be---- it will be GOOD LUCK!!:)
2006-10-08 21:33:53 · answer #8 · answered by missouri girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may not like you the way you like her. that may be her way of trying to keep you away from asking her for more then friends relationship. I would stay away so you dont get hurt..
2006-10-08 21:33:06 · answer #9 · answered by Lourdes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps shes playing hard to get...in her way its being flirty..maybe..if not maybe shes trying to tell you that shes not interested in you and is trying to avoid you cuz she doesn't want you to ask her out and turn you down..
2006-10-08 21:32:44 · answer #10 · answered by yahooaddict 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋