My bf and me have spent the last 11 months 2gether off and on. He has been serving alittle time and i have stuck by him through it all. Well, after he got out he decided he wanted to party. So he breaks up with me for a dumb younger girl who was crazy about him. The whole month they were together he was calling me wanting me back. Finally they broke up and we started talking again. I didn't trust him so I told him that we would be in a trial kind of break. I just wanted to see if he could stay away from her. He told me he wouldn't talk to her ever again. The next weekend I saw him (he had dissapeared for a few days) . She called saying that he had been with her, and his family backed her story up. His mom said he told here that the girl was just for fun but he was going to marry me. He says sorry. He was going to tell me. Blah blah blah. The twist is I did the same thing after he went to a restitution house with an ex. As crazy as this is I love him. Should I 4get the past or him?
2006-10-08 14:14:43 · 5 answers · asked by briana113 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's not a good guy. You may love certain parts of him but overall, he's using you. If you get married, you'll regret it forever. If he dumps you to go out with someone else, who says he won't do it again..or isn't doing it now while you're together? You can't trust his word especially if he dissapears for a few days. He may be sorry now but you'll be sorry in the long run. Stay away from this guy, you deserve much much better. Forgive the past but don't forget it. Learn from it and move past this guy.
2006-10-08 14:20:47 · answer #1 · answered by tigress 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that you need to let him be with her and not give him another chance because the more you keep taking him back he will always do what he is doing to you now. You may feel he is for you but deep down you pribly already know that he isn'tkeep in your mind that if he is like this you just might be giveing something next time that you won't be able to get rid of.Let his *** go on without you.You truly deserve better for youself.Give youself a chance to be with someone who just might be the best for you and show you how important you are to him .asak yourself this your ex. is messing with only1 you know of but hell it may really be 5or6.Think about that.
2006-10-08 21:26:51 · answer #2 · answered by northphillibabi67 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't love him, you love the idea of having a good boyfriend.
Forget about this guy who is a complete disloyal dick. You deserve better. Go out there and find yourself a worthy boy and have fun in the meanwhile. Believe me guys find nothing so off turning as a needy chick.
2006-10-08 21:28:19 · answer #3 · answered by Freddy F 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're weak. Only people that don't know what to do here are weak. Grow up and get rid of him.
2006-10-08 21:19:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i d k
2006-10-08 21:20:14 · answer #5 · answered by class of 2010!!! rock on 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋