please help?

Question

Recently i met a lady online she has told me that her boyfriends wants her kids to watch her give them oral sex and she thinks they wanna have sex with her 9 year old daughter my question is what should i do i don't really think her asking me for advice is considered abuse but i want to find away to get this info to someone so they can trace her isp and get her and the kids help. I did tell her that men come and go she doesn't need to do that to her kids and she said well its just watching i told her she needs help i do have the whole conversation saved so if any one can give me advice on where to turn i would really appreciate it I am so worried about this girl and her kids

she says she live in canada and has 4 girls her oldest is 9 i think

ok i called all of theese hotlines they say there is nothing u can do i called the police they said the same shouldn't there be awaw to trace the isp

Answer 1

Run to the authorities with this even the thought of her comtemplating what these perverts r suggesting her to allow her kids to do is sexual abuse. This is so sickening and if u can get to save her children feel u have done life and them justice if u let it go u r as guilty as she is, because u knew and did nothing. To me that's worse.

Answer 2

you could hire a secret detective,... and he could go and spy on them, and once he gets some information you can turn it around and give it to the police... or you can talk to her or contact her and try to get her to say it again... say what is going on... and take a copy to the police in their area or even yours by fax or by dropping it off... but other than that if you can't think of anything go to the police station and talk to someone,, or even have someone come to your house and talk and tell them whats going on.. i hope everything comes out good for that family and that child will be ok..


Elizabeth


p.s. Call 1-800-4-A-CHILD for The Childhelp USA National Child Abuse Hotline. You can call any time day or night, and an expert will be able to help you. www.childhelpusa.org.

National Child Abuse Hotline [phone]

Answer 3

Different countries have different organizations to report these kinds of things to-so I would call the local police first and immediately. Abuse comes in all shapes and sizes and this sounds like a time-bomb. You're right to be upset and worried!

Asking your advice isn't abuse, so you're not reporting a crime against you, you're reporting the possibility of abuse of her and her kids! And, in most countries, reporting in good faith, you can't get in trouble, even if it turns out that it isn't a problem with abuse (though it sure sounds like it is)

Answer 4

Thats really sick...i hope you find someone who can get her some help in the mean time id try calling the local police and see what they say you can do about it they'd proably have like a hotline or someting you can call to get in touch wiht someone who can do something about it...goodluckk to you

Answer 5

what what what?
you call the cops and tell them exactly what she said. That dude is up to no good? It'll escalate and he'll rape her children and probably make her watch. Child abuse and endangerment, and if you know and don't act, you could face charges if the matter comes to light. Cover your own *** as well as those kids!

Answer 6

i have had something like this happen, all u can do is turn it yahoo as absuse. or if u get the address and phone number u can call ur police dept and ask them what u can do since u have the convers taped

Answer 7

http://www.childwelfare.gov/responding/how.cfm

information on how to report child abuse,
includes a toll-free number for the
national child abuse hotline.

Answer 8

All you have to do is to report her.They can do the rest.They do have police on the computer gust because of that re son.

Answer 9

I would report the abuse on here where they can further investigate this person. It is good that you are concerned, but don't take it into your own hands.