So I've been friends with this guy I like for about a year. I've tryed everything I could think of to make him think of me that way. So what do I do? Any fasion tips? Help me because this is driving me crazy!
2006-10-08 13:57:45 · 11 answers · asked by Ren 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The best thing you can do is just be your self. If He doesn't like you as you are ,then he wouldn't be liking the real you , if you tried to make him like you.
2006-10-08 14:08:01 · answer #1 · answered by eviechatter 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been in the same boat with this guy I've known for almost a year now. Only we're more acquaintances then friends. Because everytime I tried to get closer he'd push me away. So you know what obviously he doesn't want to get close to me for whatever reason. I've finally realized this and my crush on him has subsided big time. Now I'm just friendly with him but never try to get close. I look at it like obviously he didn't see me the me inside. Because by now he should've fallen for me at least a little. I feel I tried so hard and nothing worked. But what you have to realize is it's not worth it. Because if he doesn't see you the you that likes him so much. Then there is someone else out there who will. He's really not worthy of this from you. So just continue as friends. Don't even think about it anymore. And maybe things will change on there own. But don't fret if they don't that just mean someone else is out there waiting!!! Good Luck!!!
2006-10-08 14:10:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he just likes you as a friend chances are you can't change that. Don't try to push him, that will just make him feel uncomfortable and not want to hang out as much. I'd say just keep the friendship going, why ruin a good thing?
2006-10-08 14:00:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find someone else. You cannot force someone to love you. You are playing a zero sum game and you will only end up hurting yourself. Trust me. Ask yourself --is it the guy or the game that is intriguing you! Once you "catch" him, the thrill may be gone. Start dating others. If he comes after you, it was meant to be. If he doesn't, you will have your answer. You are a smart girl and deserve someone who loves you back!
2006-10-08 14:04:08 · answer #4 · answered by Isabella 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boys are generally shy, and much worse, clueless. He may like you more than you know, and more importantly, more than he can say.
Arrange for times to be alone. Have him to dinner and to hang out after. Talk. Laugh. Be relaxed yourself and listen to him. Enjoy the conversation and have him talk about himself. Make him feel welcome and comfortable. Give him time and let him feel as if you enjoy his company. Be patient. And enjoy yourself too. Don't play any games, don't push. Boys are so insecure that it is up to you to make him feel comfortable and affectionate. Patience is the key.
2006-10-08 14:07:04 · answer #5 · answered by David S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can only control one person's behavior: yours. You cannot make someone like you. Why not enjoy the friendship... friendships last longer, too.
2006-10-08 14:03:19 · answer #6 · answered by Rhonda 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen im a guy and as a guy i know these things. subtle hints dont work, obvious hints dont work, hints just dont work period. it isnt fashon ether. so ether grab him and kiss him passionately or say hey i really like you more then a friend. that should work just fine. =D
2006-10-08 14:04:35 · answer #7 · answered by bobby joe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him how you really feel about him and what expect out of him. He will never know if you don't tell him
2006-10-08 14:01:25 · answer #8 · answered by crackchecker2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just come out tell him or show him you know how i mean if he dont move on
2006-10-08 14:00:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well.. be yourself around him.. and just try to get him to notice you... try and change your style maybe.. and just be really.. flirty towards him.. and he should come around
2006-10-08 14:02:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋