Me and this girl dated for a week before we went to college and then she broke up with me because we wouldn't see each other. (Even though we are only a hour away), then she told she liked me as a bf and that she didn't at the same time. wierd.then we went on a date 2 fridays ago then the monday after the date she decided to date this guy from her college. (they have only known each other for a week). Me and this girl have know each other since middle school. Is she doing this to see how i would react or what do you guys and gals think?
2006-10-08 13:51:21 · 8 answers · asked by jkoster 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
shes got issues
u can always see each other no matter what if u go to a differ college.
2006-10-08 13:54:11 · answer #1 · answered by globalpinaygirl 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's possible that she just wants to see your reaction but you want to know what i really think. It's the whole college idea. Some girls think that going to college means having a whole new life and exploring the world maybe that'a what she wants to do, they call it testing the waters or fishing in the sea. Give her time, if she's sensible she'll come back to you. You seem like a nice bloke and you know what you want but such is life. The things you want the most sometimes never turn out the way you want them to.. Keep trying but at a point you'll know she's not worth it.. You have a good life ahead of you with or without her.. Good luck anyway!
2006-10-08 21:06:02 · answer #2 · answered by Natasha O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a college thing, times in the fast lanes, alot of people change when they go off to college and it looks like she has turned on the wild side, which isn't much different, I believe that they want to explore and some do some don't, it seems like the stricter the girls parents were the more wild they go, sounds crazy but it's the truth. hope this will help you make you realize the real world is an animal. go out and have some fun yourself with your college pals and you'll see what I mean.
2006-10-08 20:58:00 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you talk to her about your feelings. Have you tried telling her you think being an hour away won't be that bad? Just make sure you're both ready for that distance...and realize, you're both a college and there's going to be parties and lots of college girls and college guys in both places. Anyway, just talk to her in a serious manner. Let her know she hurt you by dating this guy she just met when she could have something special with you.
Good luck!
2006-10-08 20:57:39 · answer #4 · answered by Mrs. D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u should go on Edith u're live because if she really loved u then she would be u're gf but she is dating boys that she knows for a week it may fell wrong but remember there are more fishes in the sea to date which means go on date someone u not her bf so what is u're point of using u're time on her but she is not you're gf u could have be with someone right now then to be where u are right now
2006-10-08 20:59:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no shes a hoe and wants to play the field she is not interested in a serious relationship so if that what you want stay away from her
2006-10-08 20:53:09 · answer #6 · answered by lisaisfunn1 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i thinkt hat she just wants to be popular,and she is trying to get you to notice her.b ut i think that you should fimd a different girl and forget about her ok.....
2006-10-08 20:58:47 · answer #7 · answered by steer_showen_chik 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is playing mind game with you, and she wants to play the field.
Forget her and go out and meet new girls
2006-10-08 20:54:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋