I always had my bf's email password, so I would look, a few times I found things I didn't like, so I confronted him, now I'm looking as distrustful as him.
2006-10-08 13:34:24 · 18 answers · asked by joulesofaffection 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well I had them once for his myspace page, I was working on it. I saw a comment I didn't like on someone elses page, and I saw he was into soooo much porn it made me sick
2006-10-08 13:39:05 · update #1
Ok, I mean at first it wasn't a big deal. Now its become and addiction, and he lies more to me now, because he thinks that I can't get into his account. It drives me crazy, that he'd say something to one person and lie to my face.
I really thought he wanted to marry me. I feel the whole time he was playing me. Yes, I shouldn't be in his account. i know that. But, to me, people who want to be married, shouldn't have anything to hide.
2006-10-08 13:52:34 · update #2
Its ok. Things are over between me & him, because of this. Trust on both ends. I just don't want anything like this to happen again.
2006-10-08 14:26:45 · update #3
i dont blame you.. i did it to my x gf and found out she was cheating on me.. i did it when i susppected something and wasnt getting any answer from her... so if somethings up.. **** the bull **** and find the trueth by any means necessarry!
2006-10-08 13:43:25 · answer #1 · answered by tony 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NetDog Porn Filter, http://www.netdogsoft.com
2006-10-08 15:54:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is this program designed for parents to monitor their teens online and works just as well with boyfriends. http://www.teensafetyonline.com Runs silently on the PC and records all chats, emails and etc. Then sends all this info to your email. Just to warn you, because I have had this happen, be prepared. From what it sounds like, you are not going to like his chats!
2006-10-08 18:53:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Curiosity killed the cat. I personally never had a gf but spying on people that trust you just reeks of paranoid behaivor. Stalkers do that!
2006-10-08 13:39:08 · answer #4 · answered by deusdenton 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you need to spy than you should not be with him. Would you rather he JUST LOOK at porn or cheat. hes only looking thats fine don't be such a prude.
2006-10-08 13:50:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
mine spies on me all the time, doesn't matter, always looking at my email and more.
i don't know why she feels the need to do that, i have never cheated on her and never plan to.
With as many STDs as there is floating around, it is scary to have a cheating lover
2006-10-08 13:39:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont.... We have been together for two years and two months...we are having a child together. I have his passwords to alot of stuff.. but i never check them.. i trust him.... and its not the big of a deal to me...
2006-10-08 13:36:32 · answer #7 · answered by future_claudio 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure why not?? it's better to know than not to know. i did it so much until i became very good at it!!! now friends and family calls me when they need a dam Good P.I.
2006-10-08 13:43:58 · answer #8 · answered by Kas-O 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st of all hes dumb for giving you his password...relationships are based on trust and in a relationship you also need your privacy....if you cant trust him and his privacy then obviously you have some insecurities that you need to deal with yourself....
2006-10-08 13:39:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
before i used to..but now....what would i do that?if he really loves me..he must be honest....i dont have spy on him...but in the long run if i will be able to catch him.....for sure he cannot step at the doorstep of my house....ewwww..Trust your BF....in that way his conscience will always be at his side....haunting him.....
2006-10-08 13:39:47 · answer #10 · answered by xrae12 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋