I started going out with this , but then she started getting zits, and gained 112 pounds. What do I do, stay with her or dump her?
2006-10-08 13:23:39 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
RUN, do not walk, to the nearest EXIT, my boy. Hurry off now! I can't believe the answers these previous women have given you! It's amazing to me the double standard, if it was the man, and he only went without shaving for two days, they'd say DROP HIM. You are in a dating situation, DATING, that is a time to get to know people. If you don't like the actions of the person you are with, for Heaven Sakes, GET OUT of it and not into marriage. DO NOT think that these women have a clue, they see if from one side only, the girl's and do not have your interest in mind at all.
Ladies, I've already had enough of your vicious hate mail, cool it and try for a second to be impartial, and stop being male bashing beasts.
2006-10-08 13:30:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a hard one. There are several issues -
1) Are you still attracted too her?
2) Why did she gain 112 lbs? Eating disorder? Anger? Insecurity?
3) As hard as it is to ask yourself do you want to be with her? If you don't then you will just build resentment.
You asked the question of us, which means you have been asking the question of yourself. Logically write down the pro's and con's and make a choice and then live with that choice.
2006-10-08 20:27:54 · answer #2 · answered by Russ 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
wow, 112 is alot. anyhow, were you only going out with her because she was hot?? that's a stupid reason. and i think you are exaggerating on the weight, honestly, i dont think you are that shallow of a guy for asking this question, i doubt i would date a fat guy, or one that gained 112 pounds while i was dating him, and you are a guy, guys are into themselves, so i believe you really are hot, or at least think you are. so ddont listen to the others who answered, but you are being rude, and you should be going out with her because you love her. my answer is dump her, she deserves someone better, and she's not right for you.
2006-10-08 20:32:53 · answer #3 · answered by a 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Deflate your over sized ego. Dude, grow the hell up. Were her looks the only thing that you liked about her in the first place? If so then dump her for her sake because you're a jerk and you need to grow up and get a reality check. She deserves someone so much better then you.
I sincerely hope that you never get married because you'd never last and girls hearts get broken so easily. So do us all a favor and become a recluse. So you too don't break our heart.
S
2006-10-08 20:29:22 · answer #4 · answered by Sam I Am 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok if you liked her for WHO she is it really shouldn't matter how much weight she gained! If she gained all that much weight maybe you guys should go to the gym together! Get her on the treadmill! Have her work out with you! She might be unhappy with herself right now because she gained all that weight! Don't get all in her face about it though! That will not help at all! It will make it worse! Help her out! Be the shoulder for her to lean on! It also helps by not being so shallow!
2006-10-08 20:29:20 · answer #5 · answered by Black Betty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol oh my god is this a serious question! you only went out with her cause she was hot. oooh what a shallow little bastard you are! you must be in high school huh. tsk tsk. well since you only wanted her cause she was hot and shes not anymore then yeah dump her and let her find somebody who will like her for who she is.
2006-10-08 20:26:04 · answer #6 · answered by foxey_lady04 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Oh okay, so you look like Brad Pitt huh? NOT. Do her a favor and dump her, so she can find someone who likes her for who she is, and not just how she looks. Jerk.
2006-10-08 20:26:08 · answer #7 · answered by LibraT 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hello,
Well now,that's pretty high thinking of one's self...
A guy...calling himself HOT...
Somehow i doubt it...
And all lady's are HOT in their own way...
If she was HOT,when you started with her...
Then she's still HOT,and the same person...
So if this inquiry of yours is true...
Again,which i doubt...
You're a very shallow man indeed...
And if it is true,she's better off with another...
Who will love her for who she is as a person...
Thank You
2006-10-08 20:35:17 · answer #8 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She would be better off without you.
Few could muster your opinion of yourself.
Write a book- call it pride and prejudice!
2006-10-08 20:27:30 · answer #9 · answered by cork 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow...you must have been going out for a loooooong time for her to have the time to gain that much weight
stay w/ her and help her exercise!
2006-10-08 20:26:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋