So it is a choice 100% agree
2006-10-08 13:08:53 · 16 answers · asked by ? 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
What I don't get is wanting it both ways, can one not decided if they are gay or straight?
2006-10-08 13:09:23 · update #1
Are they mixed up about who they are?
Mental, Emotional?
Or just Sick
2006-10-08 13:11:45 · update #2
I know some people that was married and had children and it was a bad relationship so they went GAY
Some was abused as children and say they are Gay because of it
2006-10-08 13:13:32 · update #3
Is it a learn behavior or is it a mental Illness
2006-10-08 13:14:10 · update #4
No Thanks I don't want to think about it deeply, or want any part of it
2006-10-08 13:16:34 · update #5
well it is definitely a choice.
2006-10-08 13:11:06 · answer #1 · answered by Lfeata 5 · 2⤊ 3⤋
Why even ask a question if you're going to answer it with the wording of the question itself?
What exactly is wrong with a man falling in love with another man or a woman falling in love with another woman? Explain that. And again, I would say, as I've said countless times before: Would you choose a lifestyle that would guarantee that you would be ostracized by your family, sentenced to damnation by anyone who's religious, and likely shunned by friends, and discriminated against in the workplace? Would you choose that? Would you choose a lifestyle that guaranteed that you and your partner would never have the basic rights that any straight couple in this country is entitled to? Simply because we have this archaic notion that marriage, which in this day and age is merely a state-regulated contract, is some sort of mandate from God? You'd seriously choose something like that if you didn't have to? If you didn't feel absolutely sure that it was the right life for you? You really think it's a choice?
Pitiful.
2006-10-08 20:27:13 · answer #2 · answered by Tommy 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That is very circular logic and doesn't result in your conclusion at all. Everybody, heterosexuals included, chooses to act or not act on their sexual urges. That doesn't have the remotest relationship to which sexual orientation a person was born with. It seems as if you think that simply because a person is homosexual they should stay celibate and that would make it all alright. For who? Certainly not for them. Why should they stay celibate because someone else believes it's wrong? Perhaps this is something you should step back and think about in more logical terms.
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I read your further comments and now it's clearer what you are getting at. Many gay people stay in heterosexual relationships for years, trying to please everyone but themselves. This can include their church, their family, even their friends. Then, there comes a day when they just can't continue being someone they aren't. It's a sad situation and one that would never have to exist if all this prejudice didn't exist toward them in the first place.
2006-10-08 20:14:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
So? All those Christians chose to hate them for how they are. They made a choice too. And I respect the choice to have a relationship far more than the choice to be mean to others for their way of life.
2006-10-08 20:13:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
There is no excuse for sin. But there is a tempter.
I Cr 13;8a
10-8-6
2006-10-09 02:45:39 · answer #5 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree. It is a choice 100%!
2006-10-08 22:06:07 · answer #6 · answered by Pashur 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
AMEN you are right on, when the Bi sexuals came out and desided to get them a piece of the action, that blowed the whole, born that way thing out of the water, its not that they were born that way, its because they just choose to do such things, and knowing its wrong, want to force people that have morals into believing its a sickness, when in fact its just evil sinful lust of their flesh.
2006-10-08 20:14:02 · answer #7 · answered by theladylooking 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Looking at the questions you ask, it is obvious:
You are obsessed with gay sex.
You have no idea how to frame a proper sentence.
2006-10-08 20:13:34 · answer #8 · answered by Grundoon 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Look, whatever....gay sex is hot. Even if youve never tried it youve thought about it just a little maybe once and what it might be like.
Well....its hot.
2006-10-08 20:12:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes men like women
Sometimes men like men
Then there are bisexuals,
But some just say they're kidding themselves.
2006-10-08 20:12:42 · answer #10 · answered by Phil 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not a choice if you cant control your thoughts. if someone prefers the same sex but doesnt act on it they are still gay...just in denial.
2006-10-08 20:15:19 · answer #11 · answered by Lisa 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋