how can u keep him from getting bored with you?
my ex said that he was bored with me and i dont know how that happend. and im trying to figure this stuff out for the next guy that i would try to date.
im only 15 so nothing gross ok
2006-10-08 12:58:39 · 18 answers · asked by Scarlet5 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hey i'm 17 and ive been bored to, its just you dont want to do the same things over and over, you dont want to go sit and watch a movie/tv every other time your together and you don't want to be to clingy....
...dont call/text him 24/7 although I know a lot of girls like to do that it just gets boring and you end up texting the same thing over and over and over...
...dont worry about it, dont try to change yourself to be less boring just go with the flow and things will work out.
2006-10-08 13:01:56 · answer #1 · answered by Bar19one 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, here's something. Mabye the reason why your ex is now, an 'ex' is cuz he didn't know what he wanted. When you're with someone you really care about, you two should never get "bored" with eachother, you should be always surprized and excited.
But you shouldn't change a thing about you mija, cuz I bet you that he doesn't know what he's missing.
Plus you're still so young, so you have plenty of time. Just enjoy life to it's fullest!
Good luck!
2006-10-08 20:02:25 · answer #2 · answered by La Reina 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
HOney, at your age, the boys get bored with themselves half the time. Don't take that personal. Just make sure that you have a life of your own, and you aren't sitting around waiting for your boyfriend or some other guy to call with something to do. Go out with your girlfriends, take a dance class or art class. Just make sure that you keep yourself happy.
2006-10-08 20:02:35 · answer #3 · answered by Meesh 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just because the last guy said you were "boring" doesn't mean you did anything wrong. Sometimes the feeling just wear off. But eventually you'll meet someone who'll you'll just click with and you'll never get bored of each other. Trust me. Don't be so hard on yourself. That other guy sounds like a jerk anyway.
2006-10-08 20:01:01 · answer #4 · answered by Jane D 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That’s quite a question. If you read, form your own opinions about life, and don’t always agree with guys you won’t bore them, but you will scare off the dummies and the insecure ones. That might be for the better anyway don’t you think? Good luck.
2006-10-08 20:12:10 · answer #5 · answered by Rockvillerich 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People grow...sometimes together, sometimes farther away. best to just be yourself.
Besides, if he got bored with you, it's his problem for not exploring further...relationships are built...that means spending time together, and doing things together...it's on the both of you to get out there and try new things TOGETHER...if you build something to talk about between yourselves, and you will never be bored, or boring.
2006-10-08 20:06:10 · answer #6 · answered by Joe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to just be yourself. If you try to be something your not so that you can please someoe else you will only be "that other person" for a short time and than you will not be happy with yourself and you will go back to being yourself than the guy will leave because he wanted the fake you.... Hope that makes sense... just be yourelf and find someone that like you for who you are.
2006-10-08 20:02:50 · answer #7 · answered by sweetsal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem is not you. The problem was his. You are 15! Enjoy being young. Go hang out with friends, go out on dates. Don't worry about some little boy. Be yourself and enjoy life.
2006-10-08 20:02:16 · answer #8 · answered by Mom of 3 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask them what they are interested in. Listen to them when they talk. The one you were dating sounds rather rude. You should not let him put it off on you like you were the one who was the problem in the relationship. The problem is usually two people are looking for different things-not enough in common! GOOD LUCK to you in your next relationship.
2006-10-08 20:07:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all - at 15 your interests change all the time. Do what YOU want to do and if the guys is in to you then he will not think it is too boring.
Just have fun - Dating is dating and make sure YOU are having fun.
2006-10-08 20:02:00 · answer #10 · answered by cmps 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋